if you have the chance to have a happy better life without him then you need to take it! those opportunities don't come around very often! girl I'll help you move if you want I live in Muncie!

just leave him... i wouldnt have the heart to stay with him if he wanna be shady as fuck. fuck him and get yourself out of there. nail his ass with child support hes only asking you not to get child support because his lazy ass doesnt want a job :P nor does he want to be a man for once. do yourself a favor and leave him and be happy :)

Girl leave his butt and slap him on the foehead wit them papers on yo way out tha doe✌🏽️😂. Skip all that ain't nobody got time fa his foolishness like he is Gods gift to the world. If him and that lil skank want to be together let them! If even call her and be like you can come get'cha boy! And I would leave and wouldn't look back.

well he can't take the baby.. you aren't married. so leave and get child support bc you deserve it. @sgrogan93

I know it's on them both... I'm so tired... like I am to the point of just giving up and moving. but I don't have a car, he don't have a car and I don't trust him with taking my baby out of state I would for real flip shit... guess that's my big fear him trying to take the baby. I told him I was leaving, his only comment was not to try to get child support...

leave. a child does not need a father to grow up and live a happy life. my boyfriends dad was the same way when his mother was pregnant with him. he was cheating on her with another woman who he has two daughters with as well now. my boyfriend didn't meet his dad until he was 9 Years old. now at 23 he took it upon himself to get closer with his father. you have to do what's best for not only you, but your baby. don't stay because you think you owe it to that baby. you have a choice in being a good mother in so many ways. giving the father his options. when your baby gets old enough ask them if they'd like to meet and try and start a relationship. the options are open in every way. but for you to suffer while carrying that baby, is not right and you have to do what's best for you and the baby. you need not be just mad at her. he's a big role too hun... it takes two people to meet up. not one. @sgrogan93

his excuse was I was checking to see if she got her w2's yet.... I worked at the same place. I haven't got mine... I'm so sick of the lies... not to mention every time the ex drives by or we see her somewhere she harasses me, calling me a bitch and a fat ass ect... I'm to the point of pressing charges against her

I understand what you are going through. I actually walked in the kitchen lastnight and glanced at his phone and saw he's been texting his ex. His response..her mom just died of cancer, we dated for 2 years so I thought I would send my condolences.

you leaving now will save the hurt later in pregnancy

seriously I agree with what @momma_2_batbaby said and what @shananaginsx said staying isn't healthy for you or your baby, not a bad mom for wanting a better environment for you both

he'd even tried to kill himself 3x because he knew I'd stay because my brother killed himself. seriously please just listen and run so far

I got guilted for almost a year

girl I stayed with my ex for a year and after we split because he needed help he was fucking the chick

I'm easily quilt tripped, he crying... saying all he wants is this baby but he won't go to Missouri where I have family up until yesterday he hasn't tried to get a job... I'm so hurt I just want a family. but not if I have to share a man with his ex

What @momma_2_batbaby said.

Leaving that situation won't make you a bad mom, staying and suffering and your child suffering will make you more of a bad mom.

he'll never stop

leave