my bd did the same Ulla see that once you have ur baby ur not going to settle for that bs

The baby feels what you are feeling so no matter what you have to stay positive. Focus all of your attention on your baby.

The one thing that sucked is my ex was my first to have kids with, to fall in love with, to be engaged and to have a long relationship. Its been 9 years and It took me 2 years to really get over him

@mommytocayden, My two boys biological dad did that with my first son. He'd always go out and not take me...well he was a cheater the whole 6 years we were together. I never married him. But I have two boys from it. To be honest...you two won't make it and last especially with a baby...it might workout but not for long...I thought it would but didn't.. I am sorry your going through this...you can't change him and he won't change I learned that the hard way.😢

A hotel would be perfect lol. Order some room service and relax. 😊

@milasmomma, sounds like a plan. go stay at a friend's house or get you a nice cozy hotel to sleep in for the night.

I would do the same thing to my husband if he did that to me. Leave at 8pm and say youll be home by midnight and stay out till 4 lol. If he gets mad, just tell him that's exactly how you felt when he did it and maybe he'll realize that he was being an asshole to you. Go to your girlfriends house or something haha.

@shannaa24, it's 6:30am and he's just getting home

o hell ya. you should be mad. there's no reason at all for him to be out all damn night like that. it's definitely not okay when your in a relationship. he deserves to have it. when he comes home with that hang over, make lots of noise. my husband was working out of town, I also have his work schedule. I trust. Id worry about anything. because he's always faithful and he's not a drinker. and he never goes out to party with his friends. he did that when he was younger and he got tired of it. if we go out we go out together. just because your pregnant doesn't mean he can't take you somewhere nice or fun. if my husband was to stay out and party, o its on. he would be out of the house for a week. and he better not of cheated or its over. with a man going out partying all night, its hard to trust. you shouldn't have to worry like that.