How to deal with my BF....
How to deal with my BF....
I will have 5 weeks left until I have my little guy, so far I've done all I can to provide for him the best I can. My BF however decides to waste his time at dead end jobs thinking he's making an investment in his jobs...he has 2 jobs....at one job he makes $5 an hour as a server at a private club, at the other it's a brand new restaurant that nobody really knows about and today he came home with $12 in tips and that's it. He still depends on me, but I'm at the point to where I'm tired. He can't go half with me on anything and he refuses to leave his job....as a matter of fact he invests more money in his jobs than what they require and when I try to talk to him about it he goes on the deep end saying I don't support him or have faith in him....I'm sorry but that won't help support a child 😒
Blanca·
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@beezy_mcflyy, You're already going to be talking care of one child you don't need another. You need to make it clear where you stand and that when you can't work he's going to need to step up. You don't need to be dealing with all that.
Beonka·
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You're right
Keora Willis·
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If he doesn't want to listen and realize that his job is not going to make ends meet especially with a baby on coming soon than it shows he is not taking it seriously. No man should have to depend on a woman financially unless you're only helping him until he gets on his feet and he takes over and give you a break or allow you to go back to school or whatever. He needs to man up before he realize what he lost. Try talking to him again and if it's the same result. You need to think of what you can do that best for you and your child. $5 an hour is barely enough especially earning tips. If he don't want to work hard ends job just so you and the baby are settle and taken care off than its honestly not worth it.@beezy_mcflyy I hope all goes well for you
Blanca·
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@beezy_mcflyy, Don't be afraid to say how you feel to him we have a voice and it should be heard.
Beonka·
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@deafmama16, his response to that is always the same "Oh baseball season is coming up so I'll be good then" um me nor this baby can wait until then
Blanca·
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@beezy_mcflyy, you definitely can't rely only on sports season to make a lot of tips. He needs to get it together because he has a family to provide for he can't be playing games.
Keora Willis·
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@blanca_boo, right! @beezy_mcflyy it's man up or leave