Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Is it normal to develop feelings for your baby's father while pregnant? Me and the father aren't together.
If I don't give my baby up for adoption my baby's father will leave me
Okay so idk if it's the same for every state or whatever ( I live in West Virginia ) but I need some advice :/... So my son is due in about a month, and the father is between two different guys ( I didn't cheat long story :/ ) One of the possible fathers lives in North Carolina two states away from me, and the other possible father lives like 20 minutes away from me, but I told him and he said he doesn't want to talk about it, then blocked me. Once I have the baby, and they ask me who the father is, how am I supposed to get ahold of the possible father that blocked me and even have him sign his rights up or even let him know? And what do I tell the hospital when they ask?... Do I just tell them a name and they will find him? Or what... Cause if I don't tell them who the father is then I will loose all medical coverage. Also if the other possible father wants rights, does that mean he can take me son out of state away from me?... I'm so scared either way that something bad is going to happen... I don't want my son taken two states away with out me... And I don't want the other possible father around cause he use to abuse me and he smokes weed and I don't want that around my son. 😢😢😢
This is what my baby's father keeps texting me. I can't stop crying and I feel like my life is just completely over
Jemellyn·
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Omg I know exactly how you feel. I'm going through the exact same thing right now. It really pisses me off.
Lashondria·
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@jemmoool, yep it sucks and I try not to be all emotional all of the time but it's hard
Jemellyn·
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Yeah especially now since we're pregnant and all our emotions are everywhere. I'm doing better but I do still have my days where I just cry in frustration. When are you due btw?
Lashondria·
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@jemmoool, February 16th! What about you?
pattalee·
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if he can't and wont be around during the entire pregnancy he has no place being around for the birth or anything after. I wouldn't even bother putting his name on the birth certificate. guys like that don't deserve the title of "father". @jemmoool
Jemellyn·
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Oh wow you're getting close! I'm due March 8 but I have a feeling I'm gonna give birth early. Have you been feeling contractions more? Aww I'm so excited for you! You'll have your baby in your arms in no time!
Jemellyn·
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I know. I've been thinking a lot about that. As much as I want us to be a family and obviously that's not what he wants. And for my baby girl to grow up with a father figure in her life he doesn't deserve it. And our child will most likely getting hurt in the end. And I don't want that. @arijane316
Lashondria·
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@jemmoool, for me it's not that he doesn't plan to be around its he just thinks his job starts when she gets here because he and I aren't together. It's not like I try to make him be with me but geez if I'm in pain or my back is aching it doesn't require us to be in a relationship for you to offer me some comfort and rub my back. I must say he does come to some appointments and did attend the child birthing class. But anything that I've needed it hasn't been important. But I totally get wanting a family
Jemellyn·
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He says he plans on being around and we did plan on co parenting from the beginning. But as time passed things changed for me and I wanted us to try to work things out. The sad things We were together for 7 years. And after we broke up we still were there for each other and remained really good friends. He came to my appts with me and everything up until a few months ago when he met this other girl who btw is still legally married. And now everything is all about her and it seems like he doesn't care about me or the baby. I'm not forcing us to be together either but I just want him there for the baby which he hasn't been doing. He hasn't been coming to my appt or the classes with me. He makes up some lame excuse about can't get it off work. There's a reason why I gave him the appt 2 months in advance so he can work around it. I don't expect him to be at all of them but at least some. And he constantly lies. A few months ago He told me that he was going on a mission down to LA since he's in the army reserve when all along he took her to Disneyland. That same weekend I ended up in the ER. And I totally agree with you especially since you're so close to your due date you'd think he'd want to be around more to help you out.