question.... my mil wants to be part of the delivery and wants to be there all the time after i give birth i want to breastfeed and i know the baby will not be going over there to spend the night (the belive the grandparents raise the kids while parents work which i DONT belive in that) am i being selfish wanting to breastfeed and the inlaws not to be so selfish with my baby?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Before u become pregnant think of this Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks? Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time) Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor. Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a csection is no easy way out. Maybe cause u Dont go thro labor pains but if you r getting a csection to cut out the most rewarding part because u quit frankly Dont want to be in pain your selfish as hell I've had csection n vaginal So Dont come for me BEING INDUCED IS DANGEROUS TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD! LET BABY STAY IN AS LONG AS POSSIBLE IF BABY IS HEALTHY THIS IS COMING FROM THE MOUTH OF A WOMEN WHO DELIVERED A SON AT 19WEEKS NOT BY CHOICE AND WHO HAS TO GET SHOTS ONCE A WEEK TO CARRY MY BABYS!
So I'm Gone Breastfeed My Baby Bt I Want A Tattoo They Name On Me But Will That Affect My Milk??
My biggest fear is that I won't be able to breastfeed like I want too. 😔
Rant : MY BOYFRIEND AND HIS MOTHER TELLING I SHOULDN'T BREASTFEED MY CHILD CAUSE THE BABY COULDN'T TAKE ON BREASTFEEDING THEY SAID NOT ALL BABIES WANT TO BE BREASTFED UM ITS MY CHILD AND I WANT TO BREASTFEED AM I WRONG THAT I ONLY WANT TO BREASTFEED PLEASE HELP ME I FEEL LOST
missing268user·
no thats not selfish nor wrong they need to learn their place
Jennifer Jordan Leslie·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Not one bit! It's your baby! I didn't even invite my MIL to be present for the birth. She stresses me out.
Haley Arant·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
well my fil has his own children but my mil was not able to concive and lets just say they adopted and fosters and there the type of parents that like to whoop kids if u know what i mean she whopped my husband when he was 2 months old for crying and im so scared shes gonna whoop mine she doesnt have no motherly instinc and the "granddaughter" they have now isnt even family the other kids didnt want them to touch there kids so someone felt sorry for them and they said well u can treat my daughter like your own granddaughter.... amd they treat her lile a queen shes 5 dont get me wrong i love her she calls me aunt hayhay but she dictates lifes i was getting in the van and she told me i had to sit in the back cause she wasnt moving and my fil said move it dont make that baby move i was like im pregnant with your sons baby and thats the way i get treated and needless to say they adopted my husband at 3 days old so he is there baby he gets alot of stuff
Kirsten·
В ожидании первенца
Not at all. You're the mom. you're choice!
Haley Arant·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
well my mom choose drugs over her kids a long time ago my last pregnancy i had to have a dnc she came in while my husband stepped out and she got me so drugged its not even funny.and so since my mil has never wittnes a birth i thought i would be nice and say yeah...since my mom wont be there
Haley Arant·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
i feel like they will get butt hurt cause i wont let the baby go to there house cause i choose to breastfeed
Haley Arant·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
sorry yalk just had to rant or explode on them