VENTING BELOW: So, I've been really struggling the past couple days and I just feel emotionally and physically…
VENTING BELOW: So, I've been really struggling the past couple days and I just feel emotionally and physically drained..like between wedding planning, class, errands and my fiancé's work everything is literally so overwhelming. I've been having mental breakdowns and my anxiety is bad and I just feel so crazy and alone. My fiance works for his mom and she's overworking him like crazy and giving him all this stuff to do but no time to get it done, so because of that he's emotionally miserable and we're at each other's throats because of all the stress and he's the last person I want to be on edge with but we're both feeling miserable and aren't sleeping enough and it's just really a hard time right now and I have like no actual friends really so I feel lonely. I also have so much to do and I'm feeling so overwhelmed. I'm sorry, I just needed to get this all out.
christina·
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It's all going to be ok , just pray
Emily·
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Breathe! Vent as much as you need here before you unload it all on him. I am always here to vent to.
Katie Veronica ·
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@jaziahmom, thank you and I definitely need to. @emily18234 I'm not even freaking out so much but like crying like a lot but when I get really frustrated, I get annoying, repeat myself and stuff because I feel like I'm not being heard. I just wanna be better and I feel like his mom is causing us both so much stress, like she's helping so much with the wedding but she's putting everything on him and me and it's making me crazy I think. I'm also here for you, love.
Emily·
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You're not crazy, you're pregnant. I would say if anything is getting to you, try and sit your SO down during any less stressful moment you may have and specify what exactly it is that is overwhelming you. Not just "there's too much work" but specific functions of the job that are stressing you out. If you don't feel comfortable, maybe try going to his mom. At least with my expirience, mom's always appreciate it more when you personally reach out to them as opposed to going through their sons.
Katie Veronica ·
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it's just she suggested, I do online classes and she'd pay, so I am. I'm enjoying it, it's great but the wedding is like 25 days away and we can't get anything done because she wants us to do all of these different work projects for his job, stuff he isn't responsible for and she's being really short and snippy with him and non understanding and it's really taking a toll on him and it's causing a bunch of things to get pushed to the back burner for or wedding or other work projects and nothing is getting done and she's trying to rush everything and yeah. @emily18234
Emily·
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I get that. you're dealing with a bunch of life's biggest stresses right now. you'd be crazy to not be breaking down. do you have bridesmaids that can help out with whatever needs finalizing?
Katie Veronica ·
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honestly, no one is free, because of school or work or just life and no one has time to really help me so I'm kind of alone. @emily18234
Emily·
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I am so sorry. it's hard to enjoy one of the best days of your life when you can't even wait for it to be over
Katie Veronica ·
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@emily18234, it's all gonna be worth it in the end, i just think we need a few days off for us to rest and prepare, yaknow? but thanks love.
Emily·
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welcome!! good luck with everything
Katie Veronica ·
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@emily18234, thank you so much!!!