I want to be an egg donor one day. it really pleases me to think that I could help someone have a child. it's really sad…
I want to be an egg donor one day. it really pleases me to think that I could help someone have a child. it's really sad to see so many women struggling to have children of there own. But my husband is concerned that if I do donate my eggs that I won't be able to have children ever again and my dads gf said that it's wrong and selfish because she said if someone can't have a baby on there own that they're just not meant to have one and that the baby is technically my baby and that I should feel bad because she thinks its like going up your baby. and she thinks I would do it only for the money but honestly I don't really care about money I would do it for free if I could. she just makes me feel really bad about it. :/
Searrah Hines·
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She's clearly a special case. My advice to you is if you feel so strongly about this, talk about it some more with your husband. You guys can decide how many more children you'd like to have and after that talk about it again since his concern is you not being able to conceive. I think what you want to do is amazing. I know someone who actually donates her eggs a good amount of time throughout the year.
Lindsey·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (15 нед.)
Wow what a bitch I salute you for wanting to be an egg doner
Autumn Heie·
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I've noticed that people often have negative feelings towards egg donation. I really want to donate as well! I think it would be so rewarding being able to help someone experience what we're experiencing now. It's not fair that they're unable to and if we can help, why the heck not?! People aren't nearly as negative about sperm donation. If you want to do it, do it! People shouldn't care so much about what others are doing.
Samone·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@autumn, @searrahmone @lynna0909 thanks. I see so many woman suffering over not being able to have children and I just feel like its not fair.
Searrah Hines·
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Exactly! I wonder how she feels about women being surrogates 😒
Tee·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
She may be trying to guilt you or trying to give you another perspective. It is very honorable to want to help someone or a family become whole, but donation is giving away apart of yourself and maybe she should have worded it differently. I thought about it when I was younger and as much as I would love to help other women, there is just no way I could live knowing there is a child who is part me somewhere. It is a big decision follow your heart. As long as your husband is on board who cares what anyone else thinks.
Samone·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
she doesn't like it either. she just sees it as it grew in you body its yours it was you egg its yours. it's really annoying.
Samone·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@searrahmone, she's a really contradicting and self righteous woman
Samone·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@suprise4, I know it is giving away apart of me. she's even went as far as to say that if the child were to find out the someone donated there egg so they could be born they would feel like there parents weren't there parents and kill themselves. I see it this way, apart of me maybe out there walking this planet living there life with a family that wanted them and probably deserved them more than me
Samone·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@suprise4, not saying that I wouldn't want them but I love that someone else could have the joy I have because of me
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I could never be a surrogate for health and emotional reasons but I would be an egg donor in a heartbeat if I could. I just couldn't carry the baby, feel it move, go through pregnancy and labor, come to love it then part with it after so many losses myself. but if some of my eggs can be frozen and implanted into a woman struggling to conceive I would do it no question. before its a baby I'm totally cool with it.