I have such a bad feeling about today my husband and I got into the biggest fight last night it just irritates me that he doesn't take initiative to help with the baby I we both work and I get it he gets tired but I seriously can't do everything!!! am I wrong to get upset? idk its been just so stressful these last couple of weeks and I feel as though we're drifting apart my feelings for him are just dissolving with the stuff he pulls but I do love him so much... sorry for the rant mommas
I think that a lot of times men don't realize how big of a responsibility we have as women. They for some reason get to be tired after work but we have to come home cook dinner, clean house, take care of the children, and do it all over again tomorrow. I promise its not just your husband. You guys have to sit down and have a really serious talk with each other and not at each other. And if and when you feel it starting to get out of control just remove yourself. Tell him I don't want to argue so I'm gonna walk away for now. We can talk later.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
I felt like that the first few weeks after we brought our daughter home . He would just come home from work get drunk and play video games . Helping me minimally . He even took a week off of work but I was the one cleaning up . I texted him while he was out because we kept getting into arguments and told him that I was tired and I don't get a break and it's not fair for him to get to relax when I rarely get the chance to . After that he came around . He has stayed up a few times and let me sleep through a feeding . It's getting better . Just let him know how you feel . Let him know just because you don't go out and work does not mean you are not working at home . Good luck .