i am constantly wondering if I'm doing a good enough job. like yes he is fed and diapered and I hold him but I just sit and second guess myself. please tell me this is normal for a ftm

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Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

I could only imagine how hard that must be. I don't know if I could do it. you're a strong woman. 💪

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ashley·Мама сына-младенца

thank you love:) I am trying.today is,the first day out of a month that I can't talk to him cause he is in training . so I'm just sad in general that he won't be able to see him for 3-6 months. but when my son smiles it makes everything better.@maybaby2016,

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Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

aww, you're probably wore the f out lol. well just remember that your baby boy will let you know if he's not happy and try to take care of yourself as well as your little one. "if momma isn't happy, can't nobody be happy" 😉

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ashley·Мама сына-младенца

thanks :) I keep telling myself its just hormones and he just turned two weeks today . my drunk dad came in a told me I'm pale and that he is worried.. like I'm going to punch you in the face . @maybaby2016

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Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

plus your hormones are still probably trying to regulate themselves which doesn't help how you're feeling.

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Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

oh don't stress yourself girl, it's really not as hard as we make it for ourselves the first time around lol. I think it's the unfamiliar and the wanting to be absolutely the best we can that can freak you out a bit. New borns are easy minus the sleepless nights. they get more complicated when they start to be mobile and want to put things in their mouths.

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ashley·Мама сына-младенца

OK good thank you. he really doesn't cry ever he grumps and def let's me know if something is wrong by the ear pitching screams are not to be found. I just don't to bore him or overstimulate him lol. I feel like a mess @maybaby2016

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Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

completely normal. If he isn't crying 24/ 7 then you can be reassured that you're doing just fine. 😊

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Naoli Little-Foot Johnson·Мама дочки-младенца

Yeah sometimes I do that.

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