debating on breastfeeding or not what should I do can I get some advice
Breastfeeding is the best you don't have make bottles and it is free.
What all those mommies said! Plus it's free, formula is stupid expensive.
Only pros :) It's not actually a choice, if you think long enough. It's like choosing between being healthy and have disabilities. I know, sounds bad... But it's the truth :)
breastfeeding is the best you can do for the baby, i don't nock formula butt breastmilk is actually way better for baby than formula is, even if you just feel wierd doing it, you can always pump the milk and store it in the freezer and fridge for baby.
breastfeed. it gives you and the baby a strong connection. it WILL be hard at first, but you'll get the hang of it. it's also a lot better for your baby than formula in nutrients. I don't have as many poop diapers because he's absorbing all the nutrients that he needs.
If you can breastfeed, you absolutely should. It's custom made perfect nutrition made specifically to nourish your baby. Read some articles, join some groups on facebook, watch YouTube videos on proper latch and feeding positions. The first month is the hardest, but it gets easier and it's so beneficial for you and baby.

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Through out my entire pregnancy I said no to breastfeeding because I only heard it was painful for my mother that's she didn't do it with me and my siblings. But it's been a great journey so far for me and my daughter. She's 4 months now, and she's really close to me. Sometimes it's got its disadvantages because she only wants me and no one else but it also makes you feel extra loved.