Very bad day 😕 living situation sucks and i don't have anywhere else to go, which bugs me enough but everyone is telling…

I know the feeling. I'm getting out of my situation next week hopefully. I hope you get out soon.

I'm 31 weeks. I set up everything already. crib is completely made and set up. outfits are all organised by size and so are diapers. we have an organizer for some stuff downstairs so I don't have to run upstairs for stuff. swing is built. car seat and travel system built. you do what you want when you want. don't let people tell you to wait. its your child and your life

plus the crib has been built since I was about 20 weeks.

Happy that you are lol! I hope so too, i have the option of moving in with my grandmother if things at home don't get better but she's the one telling me to wait until 37 weeks 😐 i guess i have no choice lol @3.26.16

I waited till 36 weeks to set everything up. I didn't want it collecting dust.

The problem is, I'm not sure where i'll be when the baby gets here. If i stay at home with my mom, i will be switching rooms with my brothers and she'd have to renovate the room before i could bring the baby in and nothing has been packed or started yet. I wish i could go to my grandmothers, but she's telling me to wait and wait because "things always change" and it "won't take long to set everything up" and idk they kind of make me feel bad for wanting things to get started so i can be ready when baby gets here @charleerose

there is ALWAYS a chance of you going into labor early and there is ALWAYS a chance of bed rest. when on bed rest you can't do anything. pee eat and shower are about the most they recommend. I've been having contractions but no progression since 27 weeks. god forbid I would have a preemie everything would be set up already. like that's what they need to realize. there is no planning exactly when the baby will decide to show up. your due date is a complete estimate.

Thats what i keep saying! But they say "you can't go by the what ifs" and i mean i get that but my mom had older brother at 30 weeks so she should know! She had time to get everything together since he was in the hospital for so long so i guess she's just not worried about it. She thinks I'm just being a control freak about it and will have a "big wake up call" when the baby comes and i don't "always get my way" 😕 @charleerose

Oh and i just noticed you're from Souderton! I'm right by there lol thought that was cool! @charleerose

you're in Norristown lol I just moved back to souderton in July. my boyfriend lived in Quakertown before moving in with me. Norristown was too far from where I wanted to be plus my mom said my boyfriend and I could move into my old room so in case I needed help or he couldn't get off work as much as he needed she was there

I'm actually in Collegeville, which is like 20 minutes away from Souderton. And thats nice that she's willing to help! You'll need as much help and you can get when the baby is born haha @charleerose