So my MIL thinks my baby is spitting up after feedings because I drank ice water & had some cold grapes .. instead of…
So my MIL thinks my baby is spitting up after feedings because I drank ice water & had some cold grapes .. instead of room temp water. 😡😤 Spitting up is natural. She's only 4 weeks old. 😑 Even my pediatrician said its normal. She's breastfed and its all natural
Ugh. She honestly makes me feel like a bad momma.
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
That is a horrible old wive's tale lol she needs to just shush haha it has nothing to do with that, baby's spit up for PLENTY of reasons and that's certainly not one of them 😂
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@hellosweetie, seriously girl. I am about to rip my own hair out! I had ice cold water ONCE and grapes ONCE yesterday . she would not still be spitting up because of that like seriously ?! also my pediatrician said its completely normal for babies to spit up she's not fuckin vomiting or anything bad !! its normal colorer breast milk and she's fine! ugh..... sorry I'm slowly losing my patience with my MIL. She wants to find any reason to point the finger at me when its not my fault
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@hellosweetie, I needed to vent..my bad. its not like I can vent to my man . he will take his own mamas side
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
No it is not your fault! Baby's honestly just have a hard time keeping it all down sometimes! They burp and a little comes up...they wiggle too much and a little comes up...they eat too much and a little comes up lol it's perfectly normal, please drink all the ice cold water you want and eat those damn grapes! The temperature of your food and drink has nothing to do with breast milk 😂😂😂 ugh these people are ridiculous....
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
It's all good! At least my man knows how his parents are and agrees with me on all their ridiculousness, sorry girl! I am with you 100% on this, trust me!
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@hellosweetie, seriously.. I just wanted to as sure I wasn't the crazy one. like I can't even have ice cold water now? that's ridiculous. she tried to control what I ate and drank during my pregnancy but now I'm not pregnant and she's worse!! 😡
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@hellosweetie, thankssss. 😊💕
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Man I would tell her with all due respect...back tf off LOL
Deleted user·
Ugh that would annoy the hell out of me! My MIL already tries to tell me what i can and cant do. I politely say , "No, thats actually untrue" and smile 😊 lol they think we're clueless! I dont care, i tell my bf when its getting on my nerves lmao
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@floress_j, they really do think we cause we are first time moms we don't know jack shit haha too bad we have mommy's instincts and do know more than they do
Deleted user·
Lol just politely tell her when she's wrong. I would lol. Lately she's stayed away, but man when she gets to talking she dont stop.
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@floress_j, I'm never one to speak up for myself and my mil thinks everything she's doing is helping lol
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@floress_j, but thanks hun
baileymomma·
Мама дочки-младенца
Just let it flow through one ear and out the other, your doing great mama! Spiting up is perfectly normal! Just keep trying to figure out your best way to burp her, it'll really reduce the amount of spit up. When my little one was that little I could hardly ever burp her but my hubby could. I was being too gentle I guess, just gotta figure out YOUR best method. For burping and everything else in motherhood. No two mommies are the same!
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@baileymomma, thanks honey that's great advice xo😊😊