My main concern for Noah is for him to be bullied or judged because he will be a mixed baby. His dad is a Pacific Islander (Chamorro) & of course I'm white. He will most likely have that golden brown skin and I can already tell he has the Chamorro features. I just want him to be a strong person and not be ashamed of his cultural backgrounds.
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It had never even dawned on me that he'd be mixed until someone pointed it out. @aphrodite2014
@mommy.aguon, I live in amarillo it's the bible belt of Texas I know what you mean people can be ruthless.. I came from a small town in michigan and I still get funny looks for being colored until they know my last name. my grandparents are well known
They think my boyfriend is Hispanic because of his color. Haha. It just sucks especially living in the south and a small town. People are ruthless! I'm going to make sure he is known he was made with love and grow up to know love. @aphrodite2014 @lilfree16 @babybates16
My baby will be mixed too. I'm black/Cuban and Dad is white. I will teach my kid that no matter what the world think, he/ she was made in love. The world is a cruel place, but we have to teach them to love themselves no matter what.
I'm mixed and have grown to learn to handel the situations that arise I'm so mixed that most people think I'm Hispanic and I'm far from it.. my fiance however is white with a dash(not enough to claim) of native american.... I'm concerned being in the area we are that my son will be judged also, but I plan to raise him to be proud of what he is.. even if he is hinze57 hahaha
yeah.. my children will be full black ( that i know of lol ) i have a hard road ahead of me.. lol
I hate how rude these people are. It sucks to have to have those kinds of talks with your children. I wish you luck with that. @lilfree16
more than likely it will happen.. the ignorant folks group all brown tones together.. =) melanin is nothing to be ashamed of.. . im trying to get the courage as we speak with the talks i have to have with my children
Haha. Thank you. I think so. Just this world is so cruel. His dad & I have been together a year & a half and we still get dirty looks in public. @motheroftwojk
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
@mommy.aguon, haha it's because there are alot more mixed people now a days haha! my generation set the path now our kids just have to be proud of it haha