I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I have never felt in love with him. We simply coexisted happily. But…

I was definitely going to talk to my doctor today at my appointment. He definitely doesn't get it and he is starting to treat me like he treated his ex wife.

I get where your coming from I am the same way towards my fiance I just feel bad cause we are actually suppose to be getting married and I lost my job so he's the only one working right now I feel like an ass hole when I yell at him but it's every little thing he does that frustrates me and it never use to be like this till I was pregnant. I can't stand to be touched or if I'm doing something like watching t.v or just having alone time it drives me insane when he tried to butt in and bother me I've slept on the couch a few night cause he has taken up half the bed and it irritated me. it's tough that's for sure I feel like the idea that pregnancy is easy is a lie because even if your feeling good doesn't mean the people around you are because we fail to see how we treat them until after the damage is already done. unfortunately men have a hard time understand that we aren't meaning to do it its the horomones I've tried explaining that a million times to him but he doesn't get it. you just have to take things day by day and try your best not to snap. if anything talk to your doc about the mood swings say they are causing a strain on your relationship he/she may know a good calming method you can do so you don't lose it as much I started doing yoga and it's actually extremely relaxing and has seemed to help with my patience.

@snooks., I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that. I will try to be more grateful for him.

There's nothing great about being a single mom, at all. Especially having to go through 9 months of being hormonal all alone. It's not something I can explain unless you've gone through it, but I can tell you I've had such an easy pregnancy, but I'm so miserable and depressed all the time because I'm doing it alone. Just know that you're a lot better off than some people

@snooks., good point. But I almost feel I would be better without him. @20160821 thank you. Hopefully.

I'm not trying to sound rude but there's not any other way I can put this...if you weren't in love with him, why were you with him? And if you still didn't love him after that amount of time, why did you conceive a child together? it doesn't really make sense..

Welcome to the club, lately mine has been like so self absorbed like it's all about him and it irritates me so bad. Like he's the only one dealing with things I just want to punch him in the face but I don't really feel like I want to leave anymore, hopefully yours will fade with time

@20160821, It's constant. It doesn't get better or go away. @supermommy23 I have apologized before but I mostly feel like he is in the wrong and he won't apologize for anything he does.

Honestly just be happy he's around. If he were to have left you while you were pregnant, it would be a whole different story.

@scarletjessika, I know how you feel I have to apologize some tines and other times I'm like I'm going to just leave you I don't like you don't even breathe Lol

Right after I found out maybe for weeks I felt like I wanted to leave kind of for no reason, I think it's just the hormones because I'm fine now

Yeah I have been told the hormones usually make women hate their boyfriend when they are pregnant. I just hate feeling angry towards him all the time.

Lol I feel like that towards my bf but I am in love with him this is our 2nd baby but whenever I get pregnant I seem to hate him so much 😂😂😂😄 we been together for a little over 3yrs