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Feel like no one takes me seriously because I'm only 17, especially the doctors at the hospital , don't seem to…

Feel like no one takes me seriously because I'm only 17, especially the doctors at the hospital , don't seem to understand I can't even walk to the toilet alone because of how bad my SPD is , I'm having to wake people up of a night just too pee because I can't physically get up, and the days I can walk I obviously take advantage of that but I'm then left in the worst pain ever, sick of people seeing me as just some 17 year old who can't handle it, my midwife has seen first hand how bad I am and described the pain as 'debilitating' yet they still decide to fuck me about with this induction date, was told yesterday I was booked in for next Tuesday then last minute they decide that's no longer happening and I just have to 'deal with it' until he comes naturally or until they decide next week when to induce me

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mammyto3

Hannah

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

My consultant did that to me with my second I was 21 and have rheumotoid arthritus and really bad spd like your self the had my induction set for 38 weeks got there to be told I didn't need it and baby would come naturally I tried to fight it but the wouldn't listen 2 days layer I was in for a suspected placental abruption had to have an emergency csection and they found I didn't have a placental abruption it was the spd let's just say this time I'm not going to take no for an answer x

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sophiegreen

Sophie

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They even cancelled my midwife and everything so I don't see why in one day it all changed :/ I have bad anxiety as well so I just sat there and agreed because I panic otherwise , wish I had the balls to not take no for an answer :/ @mammyto3 X

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mammyto3

Hannah

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

I was like that with my first but after what happened last time I'm putting my foot down and they have relied as at my 24 week consultant appointment I made them a free to induce me by my die date and they know I am fighting for before and I still don't know how they can just change there minds they said as they do what's best for mother and baby and natural is better for both mother and baby and I said we'll that didn't work for me did it and that seemed to shut them up x

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mammyto3

Hannah

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@sophiegreen,

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sophiegreen

Sophie

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Thinking of going back the hospital and speaking to them without backing down, the medication they gave me puts me in more pain , there's nothing I can do to relieve it and the baby is also back to back which is also causing loads of problems @mammyto3 x

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mammyto3

Hannah

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

My daughter was back to back so I feel your pain you could go back or ring or go and see your midwife say it's important and get her to help with it taking no for an answer is hard especially when they use all there technical words and twist things to making them sound as if there help lingerie when they are still pushing the dates back for induction @sophiegreen

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?