I'm about to make arrangements to California and taking my kids with me. my MIL is upset at me bc I don't want anyone…

You go momma

:) like if one of my family members said I couldn't hold there son and or daughter. I wouldn't take it to heart. it's ridiculous. my husband thinks I'm in the wrong.

Just like when I had fb. andbi would always post vegitarian pics. and posted howw wrong it is to slaughter animals. I upset HIS family. there's always some type of drama going on. and it's always my fault. I'm so tired of it. @harmoniesmommy2015

You are definitely not in the wrong. Hell my little sister is 19 and pregnant and I still made her sit by my or another adult when she was holding my daughter. As my sister has really bad ADHD and gets really tense and nervous when she's holding a baby and they start crying. But on the plus side my sister has gotten so much better and not as nervous when she holds my daughter when she is crying.

well at least your on my side lol. thays 1 point for me lol.

yea i,can understand why you would be so nervous.

but I'm glad she's getting better at it too. for your sake and babies lol.

i,just want MY time with my son. my other son is 10 years old. and i,don't get to see him ever. so,like i said before. this is my last baby. and I'm feeling verrrrry clingy. I cant help it. lol.

I texted my MIL and told her she can hold him. I apologized to her since I'm living under her roof. but it doesn't change how if feel. and I'm still going to take a trip to California where my family can see there grandkids. and my 2 oldest can see there Brother and sisters. @harmoniesmommy2015

Right. Maybe some time away from your MIL's house will do everyone some good. And I'm glad my little sister is getting better too as her son will be here in 4-7 weeks. But he'll be in the hospital for anywhere from 1-9months after birth. He has what the doctors call a diaphragmatic hernia, so his stomach and part of his intestines are up by his heart and left lung. Do 1week to a few months after birth he'll have to have corrective surgery on it. How soon Jeremiah has surgery depends on how stable he his after birth and how good his lungs are doing.

oh goodness. well I'll be praying for him. in sure he will be okay god,will protect him 💜 if you ever need anything I am here for you. @harmoniesmommy2015

Thank you @momma588. We are hoping for the best and planning for the worst. We already have a burial plot just in case he were to pass. Because at first they were giving him a less then 20-30% chance of survival because my sister hadn't had genetic testing done yet. But now that she has done the genetics testing and everything came back normal he has more like a 90-95% chance of survival.