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Samantha

So I have a dilemma... The hospital where I am delivering will only let 3 people be in the room during labor... I am…

So I have a dilemma... The hospital where I am delivering will only let 3 people be in the room during labor... I am super close to my family and not as close to my husbands... So I told my mom and grandma along with my husband that they would be in the room. I informed my husband today and he got upset that none of his family would be in there... Am I wrong to not let his mom be in the room? 😩 any help would be great...

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missing77user

missing77user

В ожидании первенца

we're able to have 5 and I wrote down who I want in there unfortunately my god sister won't be able to be in there so I'm just thinking it will be my sons dad and me that way it's just fair to everyone.

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alove

Amy

You should have a person there for you, and he should also. I mean it's both of yalls child and I'm sure his mother would love to see her grand baby being born 😊 but it's your decision and everyone should respect it also

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mommybump2016

mommybump2016

this is during labor while your pushing? can more ppl be in there up until than? honestly your mom gma and husband are your support you want in the room with you I would tell him his mom can come in right after the baby is born but not during. that is your time and you need to feel comfortable with who you choose and your mom and gma will not only be worried about the baby but you also and you need that!!

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alove

Amy

I agree with @mommybump2016 also

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jensensmom

Aimee

В ожидании первенца

I'm in the same boat. I told my boyfriends mom she could be in there but now that the time is getting closer I feel like I don't want her in there.

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sblaylock

Samantha

Yea well I was informed at first it was the whole time until the baby was delivered... But I just talked to the hospital and its once I start pushing... I love my mother in law... But at times she drives me crazy, and I like the fact that she sees me with pants on... Not feet up and everything out in the open. Lol 😕

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aliasmommy20

infinity

В ожидании первенца

It's whatever you want . So if you feel like you'll do better without her being in there then just record it for & go on about pushing lol you not really gone care when the time comes , you not gone feel so bad because you'll have other stuff going on and that should be the least of her worries also .

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theirmommy_3

Jenni

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (33 нед.)

they only let 2 with mine

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sblaylock

Samantha

Part of me wishes they only let two in with me!! It would make my life so much easier!

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ice-princess

Amanda

В ожидании первенца

I would tell him that when he's the one with his stuff all exposed and pushing out a baby then he can decide who he wants in there but you are going thru the pain you want who you want in the room

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mandylyn

mandylyn

↑ yep no way I couldn't feel comfortable having my mother in law In there with me. he has never said anything either. I think he knows and understand that would be so uncomfortable for me.

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sblaylock

Samantha

Thanks ladies! I appreciate the response! She usually is out of town on the road so I didn't think this would be a problem... But she is off due to an injury. 😕 ugh! Thanks again!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.