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My mom is trying to make me feel bad for not wanting her in there while I'm pushing. My mom and I tend to argue a lot…

My mom is trying to make me feel bad for not wanting her in there while I'm pushing. My mom and I tend to argue a lot and it would most likely stress me out. I just wanted it to be my fiancé and I, but she is making me feel horrible by saying she's just not going to come at all until after I have the baby. I wanted an hour after birth to try and breastfeed and bond with baby but I feel like if I don't give in and let everyone on right after I have her, they will all be mad at me. 😔

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corpsmanswife

Nina Davis

do what is gonna be comfortable for you, don't let her do that to you. she loves you and will be there regardless, I wish you luck

lovebuggg2016

Taylor

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Thank you @corpsmanswife

sexxymama83

Mrs.RJ

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Do what you want. So what if they get mad it's about you and the baby not them..... People kill me. It's her lost if she wants to wait. Oh well no sweat off your back. Don't let that bother you. You will have a lot going on. Just focus on you and baby.

lovebuggg2016

Taylor

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Thank you. @sexxymama83

little_1_on_the_way

Anastasia Jaksetic

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Its your special moment do what you want to do. I am only having my bf and his mom in the room.

lovebuggg2016

Taylor

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My mom and I just tend to argue a lot. And I know she will never let me live it down, especially since I live with her. She keeps saying I'm cutting her out, yet again I live with her and she will be babysitting my daughter while in at school. @little_1_on_the_way

little_1_on_the_way

Anastasia Jaksetic

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I'm sorry. My family won't even talk to me since they found out I was pregnant. All I have right now is my bfs family.

jasminemaye

Jasmine

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)

my moms the same way @lovebuggg2016 she wants to be in room but she always stresses me out. it I don't breastfeed long enough she'll like disown me, she tried to be the one to name my daughter and my sisters son. some parents need to give us space.

lovebuggg2016

Taylor

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@little_1_on_the_way, that's horrible! I'm so sorry! My family is being supportive about it but if on Friday I go in and don't let her in I know I'm going to really be hurting her.

mama2b821

mama2b821

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