i need a shower a decent meal an 20 mins to myself... I'm in the bathroom listening to my 3 year old scream for a second banana and my 1 year old cry at the door because he knows I'm in here... is it so much to ask for some me time... my man is home and he keeps telling the kids to come to me when they want/need something... idk how much longer I can do everything...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My 5 year old brother just got circumcised due to all the infections he kept on getting & seeing him in so much pain not being able to walk makes me glad I got my son circumcised as a newborn & planning on doing the same with my second baby.
Question: 16 year old dating an q8 year old? Thoughts?? My opinion is hell no. 16 year old is still a kid. Kids now a days want to be grown so bad and be in adult relationships and situations. I know when my daughters are 16 and they tell me they are dating an 18 year old. I will surely flip my lid.
HOLD THE PHONE They don't teach cursive in school anymore? Is this true? My 10 year old niece and 7 year old nephew were mesmerized by me writing in cursive and my brother said it isn't taught anymore because it's considered unnecessary. I guess I'm getting old, but I find that kind of sad.
Not hating, but idc if i was a millionaire i would not but my 3 year old in a 950 anything 🤣😂
Sindi·
Мама сына-младенца
Hang in there! You should consider talking to your husband about sharing the load. You didn't get pregnant on your own so he needs to get his stuff together and help you. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. if yu need someone to talk to I'm here!
Sarah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
he thinks because he works and I stay home I should deal with house and kids on my own and if he happens to help with either I should be greatful... @nikolaismommy
Sindi·
Мама сына-младенца
@mskx14, that's a terrible mindset to have... I don't get why some men don't understand that being a full time mom is hard and we need a break sometimes to...
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
Mine used to be like this too. He goes to work and comes home and just sits there. Meanwhile, I take care of the baby, the house work, the bills, the dog, the yard, have dinner done by the time he gets home, pack his lunches, make his boss brownies every other saturday, it was stressful. So I gave him an ultimatum. Either you get off your ass and help me, or I'll find someone who will. Simple as that.
Sarah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I like that @emmataylor its hard because I'm taking care of ours and his daughter he gets her at 7:30am and is asleep by 10am leaving me to do everything either overnight or until 3pm when her mother comes
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
I would tell him how you're feeling! Tell him how overwhelming it all is! He may not jump right in and say "Waddya need me to do?" But he will either stay up past 10 to help, or he'll be sleeping on the couch that night. Let him know you're serious! I used to take Waylin, my almost 3 month old out to the living room and pull his bassinet up beside the couch and pass out there with him. Michael would complain about us not coming to bed and I explained. Why should I? I won't get any sleep because when he wakes up I'm the one getting up with him. If he's hungry, I feed him. If he's got a nasty diaper, I change it. If he wants his binky, I give it to him. There's too many I's in that sentence and no we's. So either "we" start doing things or "I'm" gonna pack my shit and really do it on my own.
Sarah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
we don't sleep together...
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
Like... Ever? Even just sleeping or like "sleeeeeeppiiinnngg" the way y'all became a momma and daddy? Lol
Sarah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@emmataylor, he works third so we sleep at different times.. we do still do the thing that made me a mamma tho lol
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
Lol okay good! Haha and I totally get that. Michael is a truck driver and so he leaves at 3:30am and gets home at about 6-7pm every day. The only day he has off is Sunday so we have weird sleeping schedules too!
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
But as soon as I get Waylin to sleep at night I put him in his bassinet in our bedroom and crawl in bed with him. We only get a couple hours to cuddle/fall asleep together, but that's cherished time to us!
Emma Taylor.·
Мама сына-младенца
But Waylin is only 3 months old and he's our first one. So i couldn't even imagine having 2 and not getting any help. Usually when I need a minute to collect myself I just put bubby in Michael's arms and I say his diaper is clean, he's been fed, he's not hurt, just hold him and bond for a minute. And I don't even give him a chance to say no! As soon as I give bub to him and tell him those things I walk into another room and collect myself for a few minutes. Weather I paint my nails, or fold some laundry, or hop in a shower, shoot sometimes I'll even walk outside to smoke a cigarette. But it's definitely important to have some "me time" even if all you're doing is folding laundry by yourself!