this is a long post but I'm just feeling down and need advice. I'm 20 years old I have 3 yr old boy, a 2 yr old girl and 11 weeks pregnant with another. I've been bashed for having so many so young. I'm engaged to a wonderful man, have my own house, and my own job. I take care of my kids and all my responsibility but still being bashed. I feel like a bad mom my kids don't listen to me just everyone else and they act like they hate me when their daddy comes home. I've always have self esteem issues and I feel fat all the time. I got big after my first 2 kids but dropped down I am now 126lbs after gaining 3 lbs from being pregnant. I feel like the biggest person even though I know I'm not. I know I'm all over the place but I need to vent to get everything out. I feel so down about myself. my fiancee and my mom are very supportive, but my sister (my twin) downs me first it was bc I was too fat and now it's bc I'm too skinny I can't make her happy and my dad always makes fat jokes. I know I'm small and my best friend is bigger than me and I think she looks really good but when I look at myself I feel disgusting. in sorry everyone.... idk what to think or do.
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if you are taking full responsibility for your kids they really have no place to say anything becasue that is alot more than alot of moms at your age can say. you are a great mom try to keep your head up and let what they say just roll off you. its alot easier said than done but you man and your mom are supporting you 100% thats what matters
it is always hard to please everyone but if it seems thay your own kids resent you... dominate. They need to know that youre the mother, not the kid. Yes they are your own kids but even then you have them life, have them understand that. they may hate you for it now but will love you for it later. Everyone will always judge everything, its all about what you let get to you and what you truely believe to be the truth. Your doing and being a normal parent and your weight is awesome, i truely wish i was at your weight, it would be so nice especially to my lower back. and family will complain about anything because they dont have anything better to do.
Thank you :) that put a smile on my face and I needed that
1st of all if someone gives you crap about having kids so young let them know that when they move out you will still be young and able to live life and do what you want! 2nd of all you arent big in any way. 126 is small and you should be pround of that! Only weighing thay much amd having 2 kids and one on the way! That is awesome! 3rd kids will be kids. They never listen and always like daddy more. In my experience its because daddy is all fun and game and mommy is the one who doesnt take crap. I cannot imagine what you are going through with having 2 kids under 4 and being pregnant. I have 1 that is 3 and he drove me crazy through my pregnancy and now with my newborn. Hes acting up more which makes me punish him more which makes him like daddy more. I know what you're going through. And im here if you want to talk (:
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question: 16 year old dating an q8 year old? Thoughts??
My opinion is hell no. 16 year old is still a kid. Kids now a days want to be grown so bad and be in adult relationships and situations. I know when my daughters are 16 and they tell me they are dating an 18 year old. I will surely flip my lid.
Woke up outta my sleep in crazy pain and to my 4 year old all under me and to my husband saying is Loyal here yet I'm getting nervous cause that man have always been head on to when his kids coming out an playing the game and guess what that's what's going on now I'm ready for baby boy but then again I am not. My 4 year old is literally walking every where I walk talking about I'ma stay with you mama even when I go to the br I'm starting to feel sick to my stomach......
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
Thank y'all so much for the support on here too