yep. sometimes what's best is breastmilk

@kodiadiyahsmommy10415, my lil mya is allergic to formula 2 n i didnt know that

@mya2015, Good I'm glad he agrees with you.

we know what's best for our babies.

so screw her . sorry not sorry. my mom said i didn't bf y'all I was like idc do u know statistic show African American women don't bf long or bf at all? I'm never stopping our milk Is best. and formula broke my Kodi out and come to find out she's allergic to it! and BM is SUPERMILK

yes she did she really is da last person i want to take advice from@kodiadiyahsmommy10415

and back then parents did alot of unhealthy things

mils are ment to make ur life miserable. so do WHAT U WANT!! NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR NEGATIVITY. SHE NEEDS TO SUPPORT U IF NOT SAY THANKS FFOR THE ADVICE

my husband just got home n we talked about it n he said we not going back ova there@gracie0922

@mya2015, psh if she wants it that way just tell her well I want to breastfeed my child so if I cant breast feed at your house I guess I'll just be staying home with my child and tell your husband the same thing and just be like if you want to go to your mom's house go but she's telling me I can't breast feed our child in her house so I won't be going over there anymore and if he truly loves you and wants the best for your child he should understand and at least talk to his mom about it. I don't mean to be so straight forward about your mil but she seems like a total controlling bitch. like really it's your Damn child she should let you be the one to raise him/her. and id tell her that too. Idk I hate people that try to tell me how to raise my child I would have gone off on her and if I hurt her feelings too fucking bad im the mother and I will do what I feel is right with my child whether you like it or not and if you don't like it then you can leave but in your case you can leave and just stay home to feed your child

Then I would do what @queendavis & do it anyways. At most she'll tell you to leave.

@mel0011, @queendavis i try to stay home but my husband always want to go ova there

my baby cant digest formula n it breaks her out

She said you can't breastfeed when you're at her house??? Lmao I would give her a big fuck you and then pull out my boob and feed that baby! Wow! How ignorant of her.

Then I would quit going over there. I have a monster-in-law & I don't go to their house cause if they could they would take my baby away. Only you can make that choice on what to do but if you want to breastfeed & she can't respect that then don't go over there

Yes it's true that you can formula feed and your kids will be FINE AND HEALTHY! But if you can breastfeed then you should! You should tell her yes the baby will be fine with formula but it will be fine with breastfeeding too.

@gracie0922, @mel0011 that is wat i told her but she told me wen im at her house i cant breastfeed n she always wants us there

so what does that have to do with your child? it's your decision if you want to breast feed do it. I wish I was able to with my daughter but I could never get her to latch on and then because they gave her a bottle in the hospital she never wanted the boob. breast feeding is actually better than formula cuz the breast milk has anitibodies that will help the baby fight off being sick and stuff. if you can breast feed I would say do it. it's your decision not anyone else's do what you feel is best for your child.

She don't have a say so. It's your baby. I don't breast feed but i will try agin when I have another. It's your baby so your choice the only one I may consider is my husband but even then he can't really say either since you take care of the baby. Your choice do what you think is best for you & your baby

@babyjunebug, she thinks she knows everything

I get this from people all the time. "Well I did/didn't do xyz with my kids and they never died so obviously I'm the best parent and you should raise your kid just like me." Everyone has their own parenting style and everyone knows what's best for their child.

since i had my baby she always tries to tell me wat to do out of respect for my husband i try not to go off on her

No offense to her but that's weird. Neither choice is wrong. I personally don't breastfeed but that doesn't mean I believe every other mom shouldn't either. It's a personal choice and she should respect that