Anyone else have the situation where their SO won't help take care of yalls LO? It's so annoying I have to do everything for him from sun up to sun down with no help from my husband...and don't even get me started about my mother in law trying to tell me how to raise my own youngin...my husband won't even hold Tyson for longer than 20mins but when we was in the hospital he helped with EVERYTHING....what's the difference....fed up ughhhh
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my fiancé fucking slept both nights in the hospital after I delivered my daughter. I was up for 3 days straight because his ass. my daughter is almost 7 months & he's never bathed her, and tries everything in his power to never have to change a shitty diaper. he's never woken up with her to feed her throughout the night, never once. drives me fucking insane. yeah, I'm mommy but you're daddy and this is a partnership. SMH! MEN!
My so is kinda like that, i get frustrated but i tell him how i feel
I'm in the same situation! Little things like if he has a stink diaper my boyfriend will tell me he stinks. I could be eating and no where near done and he just tells me. Then I ask if he can change him and he just huffs and puffs and says I guess but then kinda jerks my son (Grayson) around. Grayson starts crying and he does nothing and I end up putting my food down and tending to him. By the time I get done my food is cold and half the time I just don't finish. Don't get me started on showers. I have horrible hygiene now days because of not having time for even that. I'm tired and worn out and depressed and need a break. But I love my son and it's not his fault so I have to always try to be strong for him.
My fiancé is/was the same way. Not sure if this is true for your SO, but with mine he finally told me he doesn't really know what to do a lot of the time, and half the time I always jump to do it quicker, I guess by instinct. And I mean at first I thought it was bs, but when he says he doesn't know what to do, he's just afraid he'll do it wrong. I believe him, and kinda accepted it. So now when something needs to be done, I tell him exactly what to do, and it gets done. So maybe he just feels like he'll do something wrong? Idk. I've met a lot of father's that felt that way.
Yessss! My daughter is 7 months and I don't even know the last time my fiancé has changed a diaper, he's never bathed her, he bitches and moans whenever I ask him to feed her or anything like that but was an angel in the hospital when she was first born. I just don't understand