im still new to all this ,so please dont judge!
i was wondering can i file for full custody now,or would i have to wait till the baby is born???
mediation is so u guys can try to reach an agreement and if u guys do then that same day u guys go back into court if u don't then u will get another court date and the judge will decide for us guys so make sure if u have proof of bad things the father does or if he threatens u in any way take those with u file them with the papers ur going to
no the most u will wait is 1 month to 2months it's just depends if the judge has lots of cases but ur first court will be like at 8:30 and it will be short because the judge will send u to orientation and then mediation then back to court
no problem I know because I have gone thru custody
thank you , i didnt know @aurora0612 @greedypreggo970 @pixiegirl
After the baby is born you can do file

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
put in and when u go to mediation take those proofs as well!! u have to make copies of everything u will file u have to give the original papers to the judge and u have to make a copy for u and a copy for him of everything u file!! and u have to have him served u can not serve him it has to be someone else!!