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I need some advice. Me and my fiancé are currently trying to become pregnant and haven't had success is there anything…

I need some advice. Me and my fiancé are currently trying to become pregnant and haven't had success is there anything you guys have tried to get pregnant? Also I was on the depo shot for 3& a half years I've been off it for a year and a half now and never got my period back. But a couple weeks ago I had some spotting with blood. It lasted a couple days and went away then yesterday I had some spotting this time with no blood. I'm really trying to have a baby soon. It's all me and my fiancé have ever wanted I'm just curious if anyone had some advice thankyou!

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inactive_user

None

Old blood is just stuck inside you and can come out when you have spotting. Even light spotting isn't considered a menstrual cycle. Unless you have a period every month with actual bleeding, then you aren't having a period. Try what your doctor suggest to help regulate your cycle. Then when you start having a period, figure out your ovulation days and when you are the most fertile. it's best to have sex a few days before you start ovulating and every day on. Good luck! :)

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

@m.bullock, no you don't I don't like being a twin lol

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

Well it was both like I thought it was just spotting the one day and the blood went through my pants lol so I have no idea

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xoxo512070

xoxo512070Мама двоих (младенец)

you can get pregnant after depo, I talked to my doc about that because I was on and off it for 16 years and be assured me that it downs have a huge impact, its more your diet, age and if you are ovulating I am back on it again this is my 3rd time on it. it could be old blood that never fully made its way out so you never saw it. I think to consider it a real period you have to have at least a light flow for a few days rather then just spotting her and there

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missing329user

missing329userВ ожидании первенца

My sister had an IUD for years and now she's been trying for almost a year and nothing is happening so I feel like most birth control is just not good for the body. I took Amethia which is a three month pack so I only had a period 4 times a year and I stopped taking it to give my body a break and now I'm pregnant 😂

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missing329user

missing329userВ ожидании первенца

I've always wanted to be a twin 😩😩

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

Aw that's funny I myself am a twin! Lol and yeah but I took it for a few years

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missing329user

missing329userВ ожидании первенца

@mariababy_xoxo, No it's just really bad for fertility. I'm pregnant with twins and I got the depo once when I was in high school lol

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

@xoxo512070, but how would I have old blood if I didn't get a period for years. & even though there was blood in it its not considered a period?

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

@m.bullock, so you mean because of depo I could never get pregnant? 😥

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xoxo512070

xoxo512070Мама двоих (младенец)

brown is usually old blood, not considered a period though, i would say your best bet is take your OBs advice and try Clomid to get you to ovulate, that might be all you need

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

@sqeeks, I just took a test negative 😰

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

Thanks so much I do wanna try clomid I've heard great stories with that and no I didn't take any vitamins when I was on depo. But any idea what this brown spotting could mean?

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missing329user

missing329userВ ожидании первенца

The depo shot is so awful for the body. I bled for all 3 months it lasted. And it's so bad for fertility.

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batmom16

Katerina BrownВ ожидании первенца

i was on the depo shot for 8 years it took two month after stopping that i got a period. So about October when it was "out" of my system. We tried immediately after. we conceived early July. the depo is known for messing with firtility but only if when you are on it you dont take the right vitimins. my suggestion is to see your dr but also start to take prenatal vitimins to help. another thing that helped was amonth after my hubby cut out mnt dew and energy drinks we got the bfp. best luck sending baby dust your way.

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xoxo512070

xoxo512070Мама двоих (младенец)

Clomid will help give you a real period and actually ovulate, I have heard success stories with that

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

I talked to my obgyn and she wants to start me on clomid

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

I have just started fertabella a couple days ago

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sqeeks

ashli

you may can be pregnant take a test

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xoxo512070

xoxo512070Мама двоих (младенец)

a normal healthy couple only has about a 20% chance of conceiving every month, I was on depo for 6 years and got pregnant with my first right away, then I was on it for 9 and it took less then 2 years for my second and my doc said depo didn't have anything to do with it, its just a matter of catching an egg that only survives for 24 hrs once released

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katieoceguera

KatieМама сына-младенца, беременна (9 нед.)

Try vitex chasteberry that's how I got pregnant I ordered them last dec and found out I was pregnant in the beginning of Jan. They are a natural pill you can buy from Amazon for like $11

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

But like I did have the brown spotting and on a couple of those days it had blood with it

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ella1007

EllaМама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

Your dr can prescribe fertility pills that will help regulate your period

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mariababy_xoxo

Maria

I'm not ever going to use it again

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xoxo512070

xoxo512070Мама двоих (младенец)

it took me 17 months after I ended depo to get pregnant. are you tracking ovulation? we ended up at the doc. as well to get him tested to see if there were issues with his sperm, but there are things the doctors can give to help start your period and help you ovulate

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mrsgeorge

Morgan

depot shot is known for messing fertility up. I wouldn't ever use it again. along with mirena. see a fertility specialist as soon as possible.

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inactive_user

None

if you haven't had a period, you are going to need to see your doctor. it's very rare that you could conceive without having a menstrual cycle.

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Need some reassurance. TMI sorry in advance. I stopped bleeding about ten days ago when my baby was 5 and a half weeks.…

Need some reassurance. TMI sorry in advance. I stopped bleeding about ten days ago when my baby was 5 and a half weeks. Husband and I have been having unprotected sex using withdrawal method since about 4 weeks PP, and I'm exclusively breastfeeding. Yesterday I randomly had some light spotting it was clear discharge with pink to red streaks. I'm freaking out that it was implantation bleeding!! Has anyone had this happen to them? Tell me your experience? I'll be okay with being pregnant IF that's what it was, but I'd prefer not having my fifth baby so Soon after my fourth! Lol. Thanks guys!