So I am new here but need advice. I lost my son at 18 weeks with my boyfriend and we got pregnant immediately afterwards well he is going to the Navy and could be gone as soon as June and right now is not willing to go to Dr appointments because he's scared he will get attached and have this baby taken away from us like our son was. My question is how I can make him comfortable or even involve his family so I'm not alone for all of this?
My hubby is in the military n I found out I was pregnant while he was deployed n loss our angel the same day he returned .. I know it's hard for guys to go through it from my experience but as stated above guys don't like to show or express their emotions.. You'll just have to try to include him in things n let him know that God had/has a plan I wish you both the best of luck
there really isnt a way to make him. men are more guarded with their emotions than we are. justbe open with him and tell him how you feel and how you need him just as much as he needs you. you both are still dealing with a huge loss that takes a very very long time to get through but it needs to be done together. and now this baby needs to have you guys together. him being a part of everything will make the bond he has later on so much stronger. just keep your head up everything happens for a reason. I am sorry for your loss, try to stay positive this baby has a guardian angel watching over him or her.