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So I am new here but need advice. I lost my son at 18 weeks with my boyfriend and we got pregnant immediately afterwards…

So I am new here but need advice. I lost my son at 18 weeks with my boyfriend and we got pregnant immediately afterwards well he is going to the Navy and could be gone as soon as June and right now is not willing to go to Dr appointments because he's scared he will get attached and have this baby taken away from us like our son was. My question is how I can make him comfortable or even involve his family so I'm not alone for all of this?

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cheche27

Nichole

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Also this pregnancy I started off alone due to another deployment but I suggest you keep yourself busy n stay positive

cheche27

Nichole

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My hubby is in the military n I found out I was pregnant while he was deployed n loss our angel the same day he returned .. I know it's hard for guys to go through it from my experience but as stated above guys don't like to show or express their emotions.. You'll just have to try to include him in things n let him know that God had/has a plan I wish you both the best of luck

may4jessie

jessika marie

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there really isnt a way to make him. men are more guarded with their emotions than we are. justbe open with him and tell him how you feel and how you need him just as much as he needs you. you both are still dealing with a huge loss that takes a very very long time to get through but it needs to be done together. and now this baby needs to have you guys together. him being a part of everything will make the bond he has later on so much stronger. just keep your head up everything happens for a reason. I am sorry for your loss, try to stay positive this baby has a guardian angel watching over him or her.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old.…

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.