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If it was my choice I would cut off my future "fil". I really have no warmth towards the man at all and I'm really just…

If it was my choice I would cut off my future "fil". I really have no warmth towards the man at all and I'm really just tired of him putting down/making things difficult for my SO, which in turn makes things difficult for me, especially at a time like now.

To me, it just seems like he resents my boyfriend's existence because he had him young and feels he could have had a more fulfilling life than he does.

If I ever spoke out, the mans head would probably explode. 😌

@ashley1229, Omg I would KILL a man if ANYONE even tried to do that to me or if my SO even allowed to kind of happen. Thank god he's kind of terrible with kids...he got his feelings hurt cause he spent all this money on kind of hi tech toys on his nephew for Christmas and the boy told him to take it all back cause he didn't like any of it! Lol. I think over time I'll get my SO to distance himself and set up boundaries, because I just don't see myself allowing my son around them much otherwise.

Ashley08.01.2016

Мама сына (5 лет)

Whatever is comfortable for your family I'd discuss it now lol

Alina08.01.2016

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@ashley1229, yeah, I will. Thinking about it now, he's lucky his son can be so forgiving and passive. I'll probably talk to my SO this week to tell him to set his parents straight or cut them out for the most part all together. Their family dynamic isn't healthy..

Ashley08.01.2016

Мама сына (5 лет)

Yeah it's easier before the baby is born that is for sure

Aixa Marcial08.01.2016

I have a similar problem but with my mother in law!! best thing to do is what @ashley1229 said, if your so wants to cut him off do it before they try to raise the baby for you and bring more problems!

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