Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Since everyone is telling me to.. Here it is.. Well on mom life you stated your procedure was for a hole in your stomach.. But on instagram you "kicked cancers ass" and basically had throat cancer?.. I don't like liars!! Why lie?! I lost the people i loved most to cancer! That's not something to fucking joke about! I lost all respect for you! And if you really do have cancer why lie on mom life saying it was for a hole in your stomach?it just makes no sense to me!
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
lucylue·
you'll regret it.Its your body,your decision..She will love the baby once it's here!
Blessed Mama Bear·
I am sorry your mom is treating you this way. I know how it is to not have the family support you need. I don't want to sound mean but babies are blessings and you might just be helpless if you abort the baby. Don't listen to other people and do what makes you happy! From what can tell is you want to baby and that's good. You are being a mature young lady by having your baby. You got your self in this situation and you are doing what's right! Think positive and pray for you mom. Hopefully she realizes what hurtful things she is saying to you. Keep going to school! Keep doing good! Find the support that you need! You need nothing but positivity in your life right now. @amandalynnmarie
shay😊·
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nope don't do it, I remember when I told my friend I was pregnannt and she said u should get an abortion I felt that was the most disrespectful bs she ever told me, and ur mom will get over it trust me. she's gonna be all happy and excited and ready too plan a baby shower. just give her time
yanet 💄🐣🐥·
Мама подростка
its hard to go through stuff like this especially when is your parents who are putting you though it how old are you if you don't mind me asking
Carly·
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Don't let anyone influence your decision on whether or not you keep your baby. I almost made that mistake and I'm glad I didn't. If you want that baby then you keep it, you'll regret it if you let someone talk you into an abortion and you'll resent them for it forever.
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
You'll regret it and resent her for pressuring you. Do what's right for you and no one else !
missing77user·
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at the end of the day it's your body and it's your baby and she doesn't really have a choice especially if you're 18. she'll come around eventually but being over dramatic and doing that guilt thing isn't okay. you're already stressed out enough.
Brianna·
Abortion is not the way to go. If you feel that you arent able to give your baby what they need/deserve, than you could always look into adoption 😊 Im sorry that she isnt being supportive mama, I hope everything works out for you and baby!
Priscilla montoya·
I was in that same situation.. some what. but no once can tell I what to do.. it's your choice your desicion. it's all on you. but don't let no one tell you anything of what u wanna do. I'm 18 single... I don't have a job no licence either. but just because of that... doesn't mean I can't support my baby.. ppl act like the baby's here already smh.