If you rush them out the womb, will you also rush everything else? "Baby must walk-baby must talk-hurry up and go…
If you rush them out the womb, will you also rush everything else? "Baby must walk-baby must talk-hurry up and go potty-ugh time for preschool-hurry thru elementary-middle school isn't over yet?!-why haven't you graduated high school yet?!" Drastic thinking I know, but since I have a kid (5 actually), I already know pregnancy is actually the easy part. 40 weeks or less of only physical discomfort. Actual parenting is financial, mental, emotional, physical strain. 😂😂😂 9 year motherhood vet, adopted 4, waiting for numero 6 to join the ranks and praying every day he stays put til his 30th week at least. (And just crazy enough to go through it all again, God and body willing.) I've been thru it all, from complicated pregnancies to miscarriages to stillbirth to raising an exceptional kid. (Gifted kids are a whole other breed entirely.) In a couple months I'll once again KNOW this was the easy part. 💪👌👊
Mimi·
This is why you are one of my top mommas 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@mimiz, a nurse mentioned induction (let's face it, I'm miserable!!!) & this is a paraphrase of what I told her. No ma'am, I will let my little one hang out & have womb service as long as it is safe for him. Plus having stopped preterm labor TWICE already, I WANT him to stay put so he won't need NICU!!!
Mimi·
I feel you and we know induction is the WORST!! Ugh I get uncomfortable sometimes but a bath helps if I have to stay in there till the water is cold I will smh
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@mimiz baths are everything. Baths, my Snoogle, my yoga ball (I only sit for now, bouncing might give him the idea he can come out and he totally CANNOT!), and giant pillow nests are my LIFE!
Mimi·
I need a yoga ball soon will that help my back? Like rolling on it I mean like rocking @tayek
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
What brand of yoga ball do u reccomend
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@mimiz, it is helping me a LOT. My doctor wanted to let me have meds but I prefer not to. (I already have to take Phenergan for my HG & Procardia to keep preterm labor at bay, don't want anymore!) I use the ball and a ton of pillows & it really does make a noticeable difference.
Kailynn·
i was induced but because i had preeclampsia. i wish i would went 40 weeks or even past 40. :(
Mimi·
I need it then because many days my back is terrible since I am big beforehand now it's like my belly weighs I've never felt this way before I need relief
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@yahuahsdaughter, I got a Gold's Gym one in Academy Sports. It isn't the biggest--of three sizes, I chose the middle one because I'm only 5'4.
Angela·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
the same people that rush it are always the ones complaining they "just don't know where the time went...." and telling their kids to slow down. lol
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@_stayingparkerstrong_, you didn't have a safe alternative, babe. I'm talking about these spoiled girls who apparently don't understand how pregnancy works. It's painful, messy, and uncomfortable at times. YOU needed to do what would keep you and baby safe. I can do nothing but RESPECT you, lil' lady. 💖
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@kermi86, YES! 😂😂😂 I'm like, YOU sent the time a'flying, it's YOU who rushed it lol
Angela·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
yep! I have to have a repeat c-section which I'm not thrilled about but I was able to convince my doctor to allow me to actually go into labor before going into surgery and he couldn't seem to understand that I didn't want to force my son out any sooner than he was ready or pick his birthdate for that matter...he just shook his head and said "most ppl who know they have to have surgery like to set the date so it's planned...plus it makes it easier for me as your doctor" I told him I didn't care whats easier for him and if IM willing to wait it out through the pain and wait to come in until my water breaks or my contractions are time-able then he could at least respect my decision as the mother and the patient undergoing the knife to afford me that much!
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@kermi86, you are my SHEro.
Angela·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
lol girl you're crazy! 😜 but really I read all the posts about complaining about normal pregnancy stuff and how impatient and selfish ppl are and then think how they are going to be begging their kids to slow down one day and it makes me sad. I love reading your posts by the way. 💕
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
@kermi86, I feel the same way. I want normal, but that ain't our path lol I'm gonna savor these little moments because if I blink when he's born, he'll turn 5! 😧 They grow up entirely too fast. And thanks! I usually just ramble a bit and occasionally have a point lol