im 33 weeks pregnant and i need mommy advice, i met my baby daddy when he was chubby and i broke up with him for some problems tht we had scence tht point he lost (ALOT) of weight,im almost due the whole time ive been pregnant he did txt or call me and if he did he would call me to say the same thing over and over. just sweet taking me so i would i always tell him i love u but u have to start showing it lik start buying things im a need or just visit me once in a while he never did and i asked him if he was doing drugs cuz he lost an extremely amount of weight and he finally admit to me tht he been in drugs and so i stopped txting him cuz i just thing its better for me and my baby not to have tht type of influence around us,but his mom called me all worried to let me knw tht they wornt able to find him for almost to weeks,she called me last night to say hes really bad in the hospital what should i do,fyi before we broke up we lived together and he left me with nothing he took everything we had and i was 2 months pregnant and he didn't pay for our rent my dad end up paying it...HELP
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I wouldn't add extra stress to my life specially while pregnant. I would leave him alone, because he's clearly unstable and you and baby don't need that. You both need stability in every way. I would focus on the positives, and keep it pushing. Rely on people that are willing to help you and be there for you. A father isn't the person who gets you pregnant, and there is nothing wrong being a single mother.
once he's better then let him in ur life and as for his mom if she is blaming you it's because she needs someone to blame for her sons downfall she is hurt and confused but u don't need that stress from her .if thats all she says only speak to her on a need to know basis
honestly you have to focus on u and ur baby Im going thru the same sort of situation. I had to move from nj to California just to get a piece of mind as hard as it was I had to move on for my baby and our future you have to b selfish for u and ur baby.
if it were me, I would leave him alone until he is in a better place. You arent responsible for his actions
thanks girls its just hard, his mom is always telling me its my fault het son is like tht
tough love sometimes makes a better impact in the end. he probably has enough sympathy from his family. I'd stand strong and stay away and just encourage him to get help. you want your end result for him to be in a better place for himself..for your baby.
@babylizz20, girl your in a tough spot ! But like you said you and your baby don't need that influence around but maybe a little visit to see if his ok but that's all . If he wasn't around in the beginning you really shouldn't show any interest !
Girl don't add more stress to your life with someone like that, even if he is your child's father. Sounds like he has some growing up to do! Just worry about you and baby 😊
Even though you love him, it would be bad if you went back with him... The reason he's there because he chose to do those things instead of working or becoming better for you and your baby. It wouldn't work. Don't stress it, things happen for a reason and this is showing you that he's just not the one. Be very careful and you work on you and your baby to be a healthy family💜