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Cassandra
Cassandra
Многодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

So its been a long time since I've been on here. So much has happened. I don't know if I need to vent or what but I'm so…

So its been a long time since I've been on here. So much has happened. I don't know if I need to vent or what but I'm so sick of being called a rapes by my own husband because he has sex apnea and every once in a while it happens and i don't know what is happening until he has already inside me and almost about to cum. Every time I don't stop him and wake him up from the act I get called a rapist and told he will call the police and have me arrested for rape and throwing in jail. When it first started happening I had known clue that it happened. Hell he never brought it up until it happened. At first he didn't have a problem with it happened but the last two years it has changed hell our lives and marriage has changed after i cheating on him. I have been trying to find a way to make things better for us but nothing i do helps. I don't think we will ever get passed it.I have suggested we go to counseling anything to help but he says no. We are about to have our 6th child together. 4 before I cheated and 2 after. I know that us having 2 more kids is not the best thing we needed but it happened and I love everyone of my children. I have told him that we need to get a divorce and he says ok but i can't have any one of our children so I continue to stay praying everyday that things will be better and it doesn't. Im at my wit's end. Im halfway out the door and half in. Im not losing or leaving my children with him. Don't get me wrong hes a great dad. And he was a great husband. I just don't know what to do or say or anything anymore more maybe yall moms can help or give me some advice.

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caffeinequeen

M_🖤Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Maybe start sleeping separate from him, and file for a divorce. that sounds super toxic and unhealthy.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

Umm maybe get on birth control and get out fuck that Jerry springer shit I’d be pissed too 🤣🤣kids don’t solve shit

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professor.hashbrown

BeanМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I also want you to know this is NOT normal male behavior. You just think it is because you have been with him so long. Love yourself and find someone who treats you right.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

I know its not. I can't even start to love myself or even start healing myself if I hate myself more and more everyday. And I don't know any man that will ever consider me with 6 kids

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momgroupreject

MamabirddddМама сына (3 года)

First of all, what the shit? And second of all, he is not the one who makes the decision of whether or not you “get” your children. You cheating in your marriage holds no ground in custody matters. Sleep away from him, it’s absolutely not rape but that’s pretty fucked either way. Google divorce lawyers in your area, if you are currently pregnant they probably won’t grant the divorce until you have the child but either way it’s better to get started sooner rather than later.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@momgroupreject ok ty

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама троих детей

@mommys4angels, in most states you can remain in the same home during a separation. Living in separate rooms/ not having sex etc.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts we don't have much sex anyways and it's not on my part for not trying. Lol

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty Мама троих детей

I'm confused he sleeping with u he is raping u not visa versa. And personally if somone is threating you with rape you need to run girl like run run bcuz not only does that give you a shit look if he does you could loose your kids or go to jail. He sounds toxic af...

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty Мама троих детей

@mommys4angels so do that next time slap tbe fuck out him push his ass out the bed tell him you raped me and make him go out to the living room there is no exceptable reason for that. If he was at a friend's house and that happened he be in jail. If you don't concent its rape weather married or not. Also id personaly make hid ass asleep in the living room with my door shut.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@hakunamafuckitall i tell him all the time that he is raping me cuz I'm asleep and have no clue what is happening until its to late

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2

Dusty Мама троих детей

@mommys4angels rape is a serious allegation, these are the time of things that snowball, into somthing way bigger

If i were u I'd call the court and set up a payment plan. And get that out of the way then file for divorce.

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thebthatdontcare

.Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

He has it or you have it?? I’m so confused

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

He has it

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professor.hashbrown

BeanМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Um. How are you a rapist if he's the one doing the deed? Jeeze...he sounds like a real piece of shit. He can't take your kids either, he's just trying to make you feel bad.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@two.tiny.texans.aka.mrs.puff we have gone to doctors and specialists

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professor.hashbrown

BeanМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@mommys4angels ok. I wanted to make sure he wasn't just telling you he had it.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@two.tiny.texans.aka.mrs.puff no. His ex wife also told me

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (6 лет)

I'm responding to only the second half of this because the first half isn't that clear...at this point you should move on. Go to the court and set up a parenting plan, file for child support and file for divorce. He can't just take your children if you're a fit mother. Best of luck to you!

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

Ty

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caffeinequeen

M_🖤Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Maybe start sleeping separate from him, and file for a divorce. that sounds super toxic and unhealthy.

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caffeinequeen

M_🖤Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

@mommys4angels, maybe look in to getting a free consultation with a lawyer.

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@two.tiny.texans.aka.mrs.puff ty

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mommys4angels

CassandraМногодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

@michellemybell09 ok

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