THIS IS A LONG RANT!!! ANY OTHER LADIES HAVE MIL ISSUES?! I Lm about to keep my daughter away from my fiancée mother.…
THIS IS A LONG RANT!!! ANY OTHER LADIES HAVE MIL ISSUES?! I Lm about to keep my daughter away from my fiancée mother. I'm 18 and I've been with my fiancé since I was 16 and we've been friends since I was 12. Well his mother (whose 38) likes to get involved in our fights and takes his side no matter what. Well today is my grandmas viewing she passed away last week and she was literally the last of my family (my mom died when I was 5, my papa died when I was 9, and my dad hasn't been around since my mom died.) Well my fiancé takes our car to work and doesn't get home till after 6:30 pm and the viewing starts at 6. I reminded him a several times over the weekend to call his boss and say he has to leave early so I can be their on time, well he of course procrastinated. This morning I got onto him saying that he doesn't have a clue what it's like to lose someone he loves he has both parents and sets of grandparents still alive, he got mad at me cause I kept talking about it cause he was gonna make me either miss the viewing or have to take a taxi by myself which is fucked up. He started yelling at me which I don't tolerate So I yelled back his mom came out and started yelling at me after we walked outside like i was in the wrong and kept saying well he has to work and he can't just take part of today off without a notice which infuriated me cause I REMINDED HIM SINCE LAST WEEK!!!! She thinks her son can't do anything wrong we've told her to stay out of our relationship multiple times but it's to hard for her to keep her nose where it belongs. He even got onto her this morning cause he heard me and her yelling when he was outside told her again to stay out of our relationship and she literally kept talking shit slammed her door like a child and talked shit for a good ten minutes and was saying me and him need to break up. I've always reminded my fiancé to treat his mom right cause I lost mine at such a young age and she had the nerve to call me disrespectful cause l stood up for myself. She was a stripper snorting coke when she was my age fucking in front of her son and has the nerve to try and talk to me like that, I buy food for our apartment, put gas in the car, I buy my daughters things, I buy the toilet paper that she uses to wipe her ass, and my fiancé pays bills. She's even climbed in OUR bed trying to rub up on him and acts like she gets jealous of our relationship it's fucking weird. I got her some nikes for Christmas and she fucking returned them for money she's always asking my fiancé for money for herself and other people even though she knows we have a kid on the way. She tries to watch where his money goes and yells when he buys shit for himself but when she wants her nails done she says he's selfish if he doesn't pay for it, I got onto him for spending too much money on a vape and I heard her telling him if it's your money do what you want with it, after she talked to me behind his back bitching about his spending. Bottom line is this bitch has got to gooooooo ✌🏼️👋🏼 he doesn't want to live with her and said he doesn't want contact with her when she moves out, she's moving out in March but that's not soon enough for me she needs to find someone else to bother. I've always been I fighter growing up just cause I'm pregnant doesn't mean I won't slap tf out of her next time she tries to raise her voice at me.
josephine·
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been there done that only thing i wasnt pregnant at the time. its annoying af cuz i would go to my moms grave and my ex's momma would yell at me for not being there all the time and like you said for being "selfish" i would tell her that she either needs to back off and help with money or get the hell out and not wait but thats just me
Sarah Ray·
When we tell her to stay out of our relationship she gets offended and says she will but she is so extra with it she has to talk crap she can't just say ya I'll stay out of it. And she never really stays out of it she tries to get him to chose her side when she's wrong I can't stand people like that, her parents are alive she's never had to go through this but I know it'll happen to her soon enough and I'm not gonna do anything but sit back and enjoy karma @krstokes2016
josephine·
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haha have fun with that. sounds like its gonna be hell when karma does hit her. @sarahfudge
Kirsten·
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Holy shit I couldn't imagine. get her outta theree!!!
Mìla Bev·
Is he a Blackman..... Just asking?
Sarah Ray·
No @redd
Mìla Bev·
Ok because it seems like she's acting out as a race issue so since it's not. It goes back to my other thought, she doesn't like you as a person but she has accepted only the good things u can do for her; it's like that's why she only tolerates you. I think she wants her son to only love her & not start a family early. And her past is part of her issues with you. Reason being is your not doing things she did & she wants u to mess up so he can leave u in her mind. Not saying he doesn't love u but remember he probably has been longing for attention from his mom since childhood so he's blinded by her affection right now. I think if you fall back! In a good way by letting his problems be his & hers be hers & u worry about you & the baby TRUST ME.... You will feel better because ppl only understand family like grandma etc; until it happens to them. So just sit back & watch it all fall in your lap....(Friendship, happiness, wealth, kindness, & empathy. He loves you! So just worry about you & the baby for the rest of this month & I BET YOU..... He starts to change & when he change he will then correct his mom when she's wrong. And protect you more........WATCH!