I graduate in July but, I'm due in March. I really cannot fathom, leaving my baby. I feel like 6 weeks isn't enough time to bond with him. My mom works so its like I'd end up being a stay at home mom anyway (which I want) idk any ladies have dilemmas on completing school?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
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Kamiya·
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I have to go back to school to do my externship for medical assisting six weeks after I have my baby in march too..and I'm sooo nervous about it...but momma gotta get that money lol 😩 I'm so nervous about it though
Tristin·
yeah I'm in medical assisting too. but its like I'm just not ready now. I found out I was pregnant right when I started school and its a pain delivering right in the middle. and I only trust my mom watching him.@kaliyahsmommy, I just don't wanna seem like I'm giving up
Alyce Curtin·
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I'm not in the same situation as you but I know if I was I would want to finish school. Its only a few months and you'll still have a lot of time with your baby, he won't even be 6 months yet, I would finish school and make him proud of you. If you want to be a stay at home mom then go for it but at least you'll have school to back you up one day when you may want to use the experience you got to get a good job in the future.
Tristin·
yeah that's true @missyowl92 its just I lose interest so fast lol and if I would've know I was pregnant before I started I wouldn't have I guess because I could've planned it better and it be a lot easier
Kamiya·
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yeah I understand..I found out I was pregnant two weeks before I was close to being done with externship and everything but they made me withdrawl because of the complications I was having..and now I'm like sooo READY to just go back and finish it but I'm not ready to leave her alone 😟 it's a hard decision..but DONT give up. you'll have a lot of time to bond with your baby schools only a few hours...let your baby be your motivation and go get it!
Alyce Curtin·
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@tbella91, honestly I can relate to that a little bit, my pregnancy wasn't planned either and when I found out, I had just lost my job due to not being able to perform the duties in a timely matter (which could have been my first clue that I was pregnant) but if I had known I would have planned better too and I could have used that in my favor and kept my job because I could have really used the money.
deletedthis825·
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me ....I thought the same thing but I found a babysitter and everything worked out I just called her a few times to check on the baby and see how he's doing
Tristin·
that's the thing I don't trust anybody with my baby but my mom especially a newborn @ms.sadelove and that's less money out my pocket
deletedthis825·
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oh well I asked a lady from my church she had 2 kids of her own and I dont even pay her she's okay with it ..I asked her how much she charge and she just take him regardless she likes him anyways and my son only 6 weeks and I trust her still even when he was a newborn like 4 weeks she was watching him I went back to school like 4 weeks after having him
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I'm trying to figure out the same thing. I stayed home with my son for the first yr, went back to work for a few yrs and stopped working 2 yrs ago to go back to school for nursing...I'm ready to transfer to a university to do the nursing/clinical portion but baby is due in May. I can't imagine sending her to daycare so young, but I'm also 38 and don't want to put it off any longer than I already have. Idk what to do