idk this might be shitty of me... but I hate seeing TTC couples that don't work and still live with their parents.... like why wouldn't you wait until you can provide for your child and not someone else.. just seems selfish
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I'm sorry about your fiancé! ! you both will be in prayers
Awe thanks:) that's so sweet, and I hope she does as soon as I start working again I plan to help her as much as I can I hate seeing my mom struggle
amen! you sound like a strong women and I'm sure your mom understands.. @brandylemonds15
Exactly! Me and my fiancé didn't even think about babies until we knew we could give our child the life he/ she deserved . I feel horrible having to rely on my mom for help making sure Madison has everything she needs I couldn't imagine just popping out babies one after another and expecting someone else to take care of them , as soon as I have my baby I'm going back to work even though I don't want to as her mommy it's my job to provide for her
yeah see there are different circumstances but then there's just lazy people.... @brandylemonds15
When I got pregnant me and my fiancé had our own home and cars we were doing really well for ourselves, but at 6 weeks my fiancé passed away and I lost my job I could no longer afford our home so I had to move back in with my mom . My point is sometimes things happen and it sucks especially when your worried about how you will provide for your new baby . But I completely understand what your saying I know this girl she has 4 kids and is pregnant with twins living with her grandma who lives of of her social security and disability but this girl and her boyfriend refuse to get a job and it amazes me that she can be so selfish
it's pretty much also saying why are people having kids and having medicade paying for it? if you are having a child have a job and know how to pay for your own medical bills.
I'm not trying to get crappy at all with anybody. I see where you all are coming from!!
Because my little brothers. I love them to death and my parents treat them like crap. I don't want them to grow up the way I did and I want to make sure of that, so I stay.
All I'm trying to say is, is that age is just a number. and everybody in this world is labeled with that. There are teenagers out there that have there life together because really they had no choice to ( not because of the baby, but because if their parents)
why don't you want to move out? @jakesmomma15
yes I understand that I had 3 miscarriages when I lived their it hurt bad..
age doesn't matter tho... society has ruined pregnancy. If your 15 and have a kid "your to young, you aren't going to be a good mom, you don't know what your doing, why couldn't you wait, you haven't even started your life, why start anothers?" age really don't matter. @babyanakin I live with my parents, I'm 15, my boyfriend has a great paying job and can support us. But just because I'm not 30 and don't want to move out yet, I shouldn't have a kid? I see where everybody is coming from but my boyfriend and I have accomplished a lot more then teenagers now a days can say they have.
that's different and that's exactly what I mean... the people who live off others and get to bring a life in this world when they aren't responsible enough yet... then there's couples who are on the right track and try so hard to concieve and they can't. . its sad @babyanakin
Maybe they live with their parents because they are helping their parents... some do that. my husband and I lived with my grandma for 3 years because I took care of her she did not want me to move out she needed me... @shelbysuepippin but I understand if they are like 15 and living with their parents....
I agree. focus on getting your life together before you bring a child into the equation.
oh OK gotcha I feel what your saying, if you cant afford a child don't have one @shelbysuepippin
I still live with my mom but then again my boyfriend works. I know where your coming from though, I ask myself the same question
i still live at home. i graduated college and moved back in. I was looking for a place for the time being but then i got pregnant. i pay my own bills buy my own food paid for my own car etc. almost everything i have i paid for. i also have two jobs and great benefits and he has a decent job as well. As soon as i get this call back i want to move but i think my mom wants to keep me and the baby.