HELP ME!!! I'm fkn livid and its not even 10 am! I refuse to let my husband put one kid over his other kids!! He literally just said he loved my stepdaughter more than our kids and he doesn't know how to explain it. I want him to love them all equally! Wtf Idk what to do! I'm pregnant with our 3rd together and to think that he won't love my kids as much as his daughter kills me!! I need advice HELP!!!
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@mimi12, yeah I'd say I'd have a problem with it depending on the other situation.. your more then welcome to private message me if you want to talk more in depth.. I'm a very forgiving person... but certain things are a no no
@aphrodite2014, yeah it's like he feels guilty spending time with my kids because of his other situation that's not okay it's not there fault
@mimi12, ahh.. yeah okay I could see having. a long talk and possibly concidering leaving..
@aphrodite2014, mine chooses not to be around my kids for what reason I have no idea but I'm tired of it regardless
@mimi12, I'm not sure exactly how men work I won't even pretend I do. but I know that my fiance treats his first different from his little boy. and his boys and girls are treated differently.. can't really explain how they think. all I can say is they don't get the same experience we do and the unconditional love as much as we do.. and men can change even when they say they wont.. you have to make them think it's their idea
how can you have favoritism for one child over another, that'll never be acceptable to me! I have no time to see where he's coming from that's teaching the kids to have resentment toward one another because they notice everything. I just have to decide if its worth leaving over cuz he made it obvious he won't change @aphrodite2014
@mimi12, yes I hope I don't because he is an amazing dad.. and to an extent I think every parent has a favorite especially their first. honestly I'm one to try to work things out or talk through the to see where it's coming from...
@aphrodite2014, sounds like you might but I really hope you don't!! literally when he said that I immediately though about leaving his ass. is that the kind of example I want set for my son? ?!!! it's not okay I'm at a loss so very confused
I don't know what to tell you but I hope I don't end up in the same situation.... my fiance has 3 others and hasn't seen them in months.. he has even told me that our child won't fix him not being able to see his other kids... it's almost as if he dosnt care about ours as much as getting the others back
@mimi12, it sounds kinda selfish 😞