Clarissa
brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

Hey mommys please help me on what I should do

My fiancé goes to work every morning around 12 and doesn't get home till 8 my baby is always fussy so I barely get to eat or drink anything all day bc I'm dealing with him but that's beside the point when my fiancé gets home he gets him something to eat and doesn't care that I haven't ate anything all day and he will ask me to make him something or get him something to drink and then he will go straight to the chair and watch tv so I hand our son to him and he gets so mad telling me he worked all day and blah blah or if he starts crying he will get mad and say omg why I he crying or if I ask him to do just anything he never want to do it he will get so mad I have to fight with him just so I can take a shower every night but I have gotten to the point where I'm just so tired of him and if I'm going to be treated like a single mom then I should just be a single mom am I wrong for this or what should I do I love him to death but I'm so ready to just take our son and leave but then he treats me that he going to take him from me😢 help me mommys ...

02.01.2016

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

You're welcome hang in there. I'm hoping nothing but the best for you to get through this.

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

Yes my son does the same if he crys a lot and thanks guys definitely going to have a talk with him bc this is miserable I love my son to death and love taking care of him but I need my health to be good to and he needs his father in his life but thank y'all so much for all the help 😀

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

My son had colic also and it was definitely hard since you can't do much. I didn't buy gripe water for colic it helped.Definitely talk to him he has to show interest in his son and if he doesn't care you don't need that. There is only so much you can do you can't be the only one doing all the work. I don't let my son cry like that either if not he will start to choke on his saliva.

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

Yes my son has gas promblems I'm going to try and talk to him and yes it's his first kid I try and explain to him on what to do so I can teach him so he can handle him but he could care less he says it's good from them to cry but it is but to the point he shouldn't be screaming on top of his lungs and yes he was born November 15

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jacksonsmama15
Kendra Lamoureux·Мама сына (9 лет)

you said your son is almost two months correct? if he's fussy all day he may have problems with colic or gas you should definitely mention it to his doctor and the situation with your man talk with him let him know how you're feeling and calmly let him know you would like time to eat and shower explain to him how things are if this is his first baby he may not understand what to do sometimes it's not always them trying to be mean sometimes they will just be unsure of how to take care of a little one my hubby was in the beginning as well. btw was your son born Nov 15th?

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

then you know he's not if he's only changing because you're saying it for a day then going back to his ways. you deserve to be treated better than what he's doing to you.

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

I have told him I'm taking him and leavening and he will change for a day then be back to normal

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ryker_raymonds_mommy
Hailey Childers·Мама сына (10 лет)

this is my husband! we fight and fight and fight and today I told him that I'm taking my son and leaving and his mood changed real quick

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

then I don't see why he would say that when he has done nothing. I know how you're feeling but don't let it get to you. he can't take your baby from you don't be afraid. if you're not happy then don't force yourself to stay over his words. men change and show their true colors when you have a baby with them.

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

And he all the time tell me to go to my moms to just leave but then will take my car seat or tell me not to take the baby or his stuff

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

He bought him stuff but he never takes care of him 😢

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

then you can go for getting full custody of your son. if he doesn't know how to take care of him or bought him anything you can use that against him. especially if he works he won't be able to take care of him either.

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brentleysmommie
Clarissa·Мама сына (9 лет)

Oh I know but I don't want him getting any kind of joint custody if I did leave him bc he really can't handle him my son will be two months old on the 15 and he has not changed one diaper he maybe has feed him 5 or 6 times

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blanca_boo
Blanca·Мама сына (10 лет)

Dont let him get to you like that. He can't legally take him from you like that. All men use that to scare us in to staying with them. He's not showing he cares at all and you don't deserve that.

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