no one is changing my mind @me_preggo. I'm set on my decision

She crazy to think she could ve in the delivery room

@brooklynnesmommy1203, hell to the no, don't let her in there maybe next time she will have some sense from the very beginning.. don't let your man change your mind he should've been telling his mom to get some act right from the very beginning

First off you are completely right it's your body and second tell him and her that it would make feel uncomfortable and that it's a very private sensitive moment where your whole body will basically be on display and your uncomfortable with that. Express how you feel to both of them no need to hide it you have every right to feel whatever way you want. He also needs to understand that you and his baby are his family now and that what's best for you and that baby comes first , and that includes your feelings on this matter. I wish my husband would he NEVER brought anything remotely up because I'm in the same department as you with my MIL. I hope he understands eventually that you're entitled to your opinion and feelings about your body and want to only share that with very few people. Good luck girl!

I am not even having my mom in the delivery room

@w in waiting for him to realize that it's awkward as well

i told my husband that it would be weird to have his mom in there cuz i dont want her seeing my stuff and after he got mad then thought about it and then came back and said i was right it is weird. i feel like its a privacy thing im having my husband and sister

@cmbwalker, explained to him I have the final say of who is and isn't in the room but that's not enough for him....he thinks the women who treated me horribly for 2 years has a right to be in there

I love my boyfriends mom and still don't want her or my own mom in the delivery room. Some things just need to be kept private bed you have every right to say who can and cannot be in the room with you.

I'm just doing my husband and I

@ki told him it's awkward having a mother in law in there regardless of the situatio.

no you're not wrong. just tell him that she wasn't there for the conception (I'm assuming she wasn't...) so she doesn't need to be there for the birth.

absolutely not! you're the one that's pushing a child out you shouldn't have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. when I had my son I only had my BF in the delivery room. I told two other people they could be there but I really didn't want them too so I'm glad things happened so fast on got put of that because I would have been uncomfortable. you need to tell your fiance to get over it. she can be in the hospital (if you're okay with that) to see the baby but she does not need to be in the room. it isn't up to your fiance only you and he needs to respect what you want

I'm letting my mom and grandma and him be in the room and he thinks it's unfair that his mom can't be

No not at all. I'm not letting anyone else in the room with us. His grandma wants to be there but I'm not comfortable with it luckily he is supporting my decision. His mom passed away so I understand his grandma wanting to be there but it's not happening!

not at all! I went through the similar situation but I wouldn't even feel comfortable with anyone else other than my mom and fiancé in the delivery room.. she should understand that and so should he.

I'm so sick if her shit

I agree with you. it's whatever makes you most comfortable. My mother in law isn't gunna be in there. I have nothing against her but I want my mom and my best girlfriend in there along with my husband

she is 2 faced as he'll

No you aren't wrong for it, it's just as much your choice as it is his. And if you aren't comfortable with her being there, that should be respected. Especially with how she sounds, I wouldn't want her to be there either, She sounds fake, in my opinion, and no offense. I just don't care for people like that.