Okay this is going to kinda of be a crazy rant. It might not make sense at all. But I do need to rant due to the fact I haven't told my family yet. I'm 17, And when I found out I was pregnant. I did want an abortion. I asked my bf and sister to take me. But they flipped out and made a huge intervention about it. (Which I am grateful for. My little pumpkin gives me a reason.) I thought everything was going good. But my boyfriend didn't show up at the doctor appointment today! Which made me sad, But I understand he had to work. Well so call "work!!!" My friend saw him at the mall with a bunch of friends. I had to hear my baby's heartbeat all alone. And that was a moment I wanted to share with someone!! I don't understand. He stopped me from getting an abortion. But barley acts like he gives a damn. I'm currently in San Antonio right now. But I'm moving to Houston. Which is were my sister lives. Now is when it gets confusing and I seem like a bad person. Two years ago I met this guys my sister is friends with, And fell hardd. He did to. But didn't want to do anything due to my age. Recently we just got in touch. And he's offered to buy the baby's crib and nursery. He's been so sweet to me. And shown so much care, When my boyfriend hasn't. He knows I'm still in a relationship. And understands I can't do anything right now because I am with BF. But It's just insane. I haven't told my mom yet either. I said that I'm going to college in Houston! And left it at that. Which I know is sooo horrible. But I just want to do what I think is best. I want my baby to know their dad. But I don't want to be in a unhappy relationship. I know this was long! Thank you for reading it!!!
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Thank you I do appreciate this all. I guess I just needed a push to know what to do! ❤❤❤ @bugandstomachebug
@taraortiz9922teenmom, o well I hope everything works out for you and like everyone else said just cause he's the father does not mean you need to stick around and be unhappy
Thank you guys. This guy definitely is showing interest. He said he wanted to be there next doctor visit. It all just happened so fast. I mean last week my bf was talking about getting !married, then he's barley there. I guess I do need to figure out what makes me happiest and stick with it. @may_mommytobe I'm on my own medicare so that won't be a problem. I plan on telling her after I get settled in a job and four-five months along. I really do think your right thought. I found myself questioning if I even still love him anymore. @bugandstomachebug She's very religious and definitely would've removed me from the house hold. I'm hoping once I get settled over there and able to get everything rolling it'll be better for her
you haven't told your mom? she could be the best support you have
You don't need to be with him in order for the two of you to be active in the child's life. It sounds to me like you dig this other guy, and you wouldn't feel that way if you have such strong feelings for your current bf.. As for your parents they will know eventually.. Everything is expensive I'm assuming your on the insurance so they will know as soon as a bill comes.. It's better for them to know and be able to help.
yes @aidensmommy I agree with you to.
I agree with @akla202 I mean, this guy seems like he's able to step in. Talk to him and ask him if he wants to be with you and the baby. It doesn't take DNA to be a dad. I'd rather have my baby grow up with an unbiological dad who shows him love and care rather than a biological dad who doesn't pay attention to him.
maybe ur boyfriend wasn't really ready to be a dad. but this other guy is. the stress is not good for u that ur boyfriend is putting up through. so just ask him if he wants to be with u and the baby. sorry he is doing this to u.
being in a happy and healthy relationship or happy and healthy while single is what your child needs to see. an unhappy and/or unhealthy relationship is no good for anyone- not you, not your partner, and not your child. if it's important for your baby's dad to be in its life, then make sure you end on good terms and keep the dad around. but you don't need to stay with him for your child's sake. your baby will be just fine as long as he/she has a stable parent who loves them and ideally a whole community of people who do!
Oh girl, be straight up. That's the best way to save your own emotional health.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy....
I'm having my first child and I told my fiancé that I want him and my mom who's my best friend in the room with me when I deliver. My fiancé basically thinks it's childish for me to want my mom there for her first grandchild's birth.... he said he's never known anyone to have their parents in the room, he thinks it should just be him and I. But I've never known anyone to NOT want their mom there. Am I wrong for wanti...
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom with too many kids, that I was dumb because I dropped out of school, that she wanted to part in meeting her new sister in December. I'm so broken and don't know what to do!
Just be straight up with your mom, I thought the same about my parents getting upset and kicking me out of the house, but now???? my mom is soooo happy, and my dad he doesn't show it bit he is really excited for their first grandchild! I remember I was so nervous telling my family, I told my mom and my sister first, a week later my husband and I spike to my dad, and yes it was scary he did get upset, he cried, but now he is the happiest and can't wait to meet baby. Stay strong! I know you will find a way to tell them, the longer you wait you might even upset them more!