If your partner who joyfully co-planned your pregnancy is suddenly having fears about being a parent & is asking you to get an abortion, you are not alone. I have been going through this ever since we discovered we are pregnant --after we both spent 4 years on an (in)fertility journey! He has panick attacks & says things he later apologizes for. For a few days, i started seeing images of cut wrists flashing in my head in response to my thoughts triggered by his rants. My psychotherapist has been amazing, and my partner is responding well to a cognitive behavioral therapy center in my area. Thanks for reading.