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Мама сына (8 лет)

So my uncle wants his daughter and my baby to grow up together but there's a long horrible history between myself and…

So my uncle wants his daughter and my baby to grow up together but there's a long horrible history between myself and his baby's mom. She's not allowed in my house or around my children so I'm not really sure how to approach the subject and tell him it's not going to happen. Any ideas?

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babybermea

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I would just smile and nod now and then when the babies are born just avoid him or tell him why your not comfortable with that . But to avoid stress when your children aren't even here yet why fight now ? He may be offended and hurt now . And it's just unnecessary drama right now. Unless you want to tell him now to avoid anything later then just be straight with him and say im not comfortable with your wife because of X Y &Z and lay it all out ...

lilchicken

lilchicken

Мама сына (8 лет)

@babybermea, thanks for the advice. I'm just thinking about it a lot bc he brings it up all the time. It wouldn't be so hard if he didn't live with us. But thanks for listening!

babybermea

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Ohh noo he lives with y'all :/ ehhhh thats such a sticky situation but ultimately it's about your beautiful babies coming into the world and he obviously loves you and wants to share your baby's childhood with his . So if the aunt could stay away would you consider it ? Or naaaw to much to go through def something to think about since y'all live together

lilchicken

lilchicken

Мама сына (8 лет)

@babybermea, if his baby's mom wasn't in the picture there's be absolutely no problem at all so I guess I'll just explain that to him and hopefully he understands, thanks for the support :)

babybermea

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I hope it works out doll @lilchicken

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?