if I say I do not want my baby daddy's mom up to visit the baby when the baby is born can I say I don't want her there?
will my baby daddy have a say if she can see him?
@lovechild426, I thought they could fight it in court? to get their name on the certificate. @lilchicken will he have a say in if the baby goes home with him if I put his name on the certificate?
@hayhayes1, You don't have to give the baby his name or let him sign the certificate, you don't even have to let him be there if you don't want. Just do what's best for you
@lilchicken, I'll look into it. it'll probably be easier that way so she can't go up to the hospital period. she shouldn't of fucked with me. this isn't the first time she's talked to me this way. she's lucky I didn't say shit back.
lol you don't let the dad take your child anywhere without you duh, he has no rights... @hayhayes1
@hayhayes1, yes baby goes home with mommy :) Idk how It is where you live bit where I live all you ahve to do is tell them to leave you alone and cut off contact. Everything they contact you after that is harassment and against the law
@lovechild426, really? how much would it cost? yeah but the baby daddy will be letting her see his son... lol so what good does that do me
lol no my friend had to move to alabama to get anything cuz his baby momma ran off with his kid and tgey still only gave him four hour visit two times a week @hayhayes1
I'd get a restraining order against the mom then your fine she can't harrass you anymore or she will go to jail daddy can still be around or not but she alone will be cut off completly take those texts to the court house and they'll give you one forsure being pregnant @hayhayes1
@hayhayes1, of course it goes home with the mom the dad has no rights!!! don't use his last name! also he will have to take you to court for a paternity test and for any custody issues. you can literally move to mexico and his ass would habe to move to mexico to take you to court.
@lilchicken, ok I am arguing with the baby daddy too. and I have a new phone number and he won't be having it until I am due. and have to talk to him to relieve stress. but I hope he doesn't have a say in who can see the baby in icu. we shall see.
@hayhayes1, You can always tell the nurses and doctors that it's in your child's best interest if she's not there and if I remember right she has to be put on the list, when my friends baby was in icu they were extremely strict on who could see the baby anyway
@lovechild426, she hasn't seen the bitch in me. hahaha. and if the baby daddy wanna say some shit about "let her in" I'll throat punch him. my baby has to have surgery and will be in icu for a month so idk if my baby daddy will have a say about if she can see him after he is in icu? I will be talking to them. so. yeah. lol she don't need to mess with me. @lilchicken
lol a grown woman talks to you like that? you should block her number or change yours! and hell no she ismt allowed there unless you say so
@lilchicken, what's funny is she doesn't even know anything lmao. I never wanted to be that mom that keeps her son away from certain people.... but I'm sorry, if she ain't his dad I don't give 2 fucks if you will be in my son's life or not. the only two that need to be there is the mom and dad so goodbye bitch.
@hayhayes1, if people are just gonna bring drama and heartache they don't need to be around to or your baby. I definitely wouldn't set myself up to have my kids around someone who would disrespect me like that. Plus it will be hurtful to your kids to hear th ing like that about their mom. Stay strong mama!
@hayhayes1, WOW! First off she has no right and that's no way to talk to the mother of your grandchild. Second of all you can tell her that I know the biggest slut in KC and it ain't you lol
@lilchicken, I WILL NOT. HAVE THAT DRAMA AROUND MY SON. ALREADY ENOUGH WITH THE BABY DADDY. so she best be nice to me 100. I don't play
and since my baby will be in icu for a month Idk if i will let her see him then neither.
@lilchicken, THANK GOD CAUSE SHE GOT ANOTHER THING COMIN. CALLING ME THE BIGGEST WHORE, SLUT, CUNT IN KC. :)
If he really wants to go to paternity court he can be put on the birth certificate, I know in my there a Paternity Acknowledgement that can also be sent in after the birth, however that just means he pays child support and would have to fight you for custody, and these texts from his mom wouldn't look good in him