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So I have to vent. I have a six week old, with my boyfriend. my boyfriend also has a 2 year old. he gets him every…

So I have to vent.

I have a six week old, with my boyfriend. my boyfriend also has a 2 year old. he gets him every weekend. anyway, today, my boyfriend picked up his son, from his ex house. his ex has a boyfriend that watches my bfs son while his mom is at work. they get to our house and he has on shorts, a short sleve shirt, and a light jacket. as soon as they walk in the door, a say, where the f are his pants?! my boyfriend says, I don't know, this is the way his mom's bf brought him out to the car, and when I asked he said he couldn't find any pants.

it was already after dark when they got home. (around 7pm) and has been drizzling since about 4pm. the drizzle is to turn into snow tonight...

here's the kicker.. my bf ex and her new bf are now expecting... uhm. I don't think I trust this.. his son has come over with diaper rash from hell, sometimes no shoes, shorts in the winter, light jacket when he clearly needs a heavy coat... I don't know about you, but I wouldn't trust him with another child.. like, does his mother know you're sending him this way?

and he was sick when he got here.. and I doubt that made it any better. and now, my newborn and I are probably going to get even more sick than we already are.

cute, right?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was…

Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Rant: my son is almost 16 months, yes, I whoop his butt when he runs from me when I try to change his butt or get him…

Rant: my son is almost 16 months, yes, I whoop his butt when he runs from me when I try to change his butt or get him dressed, and yes, I spank his butt if he flips over during a diaper change, and yes I smack his hand when he hurts other people, and yes, it has helped a lot.

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????