When you've been replaced by electronics, prenatal depression becomes so much harder.

I call his laptop his second wife because he spends more time with it

Like a *nag

It's hard to talk to them about it too because it makes me feel like a bag but come on? I shouldn't have to tell you how to be an adult lol.

yep most days are like that for me also if he is not working then he is on his games... I mean even when we go to bed he is on his phone doing something :( and even when we um have fun after we are done he gets back on his phone and watches a movie or plays his game :( so I forsure know how you feel

@mommabird, thankfully my SO's mother lives out of town, so she's not here to be a crutch. mine's just gotten really fucking lazy and comfortable.

@mamabear1416, yeah it pisses me off because he's gotten to a point of getting up, turning on his systems and that's how his day goes. no cleaning, no helping me clean, nothing.

What pisses me off the most isn't the attention to electronics, it's the 'ambition' (for lack of a better word) that he has to get things just how he wants them on his laptop and computer. He will spend all day trying to solve a problem if it involved one of those, but a real life problem, forget it. If I don't handle it, it doesn't get handled. Unless he can get his mother to do it. #mamasboy

I know how you feel my hubby is on his computer game or phone more then he spends time with me and our 19month old daughter I'm pregnant with our 2nd baby

@lilanne1927, yeah no, if the situation remains the same after my daughter is born, we definitely can't live together.

@mommabird, @mommaz yeah my boyfriend just got gifted a new video game and bought himself a new laptop. so for almost two days he's been using both tv's downstairs ( for videogames and shows ) and using his laptop.

Girl I've been dealing with this for 2 years. Always on the phone or Xbox I'm pregnant with number 2 and caring for a 2 yr old. I'm 22 and most of my hair under neath is gray or silver 😪

Does your SO know? I doesn't realize I was the one always reaching for my phone first till it was brought to my attention.

I know! I just want to scream, put your effing phone and computer down!

@mommaz, @lilanne1927 😧 it's something I've almost gotten used to.

I understand how that is.

😳I'm sorry