Is anyone 14 weeks and not had an ultrasound or not know what they're having yet? I feel like the…

15 weeks in the same boat

have you heard of the red cabbage gender test?

No what's that? @dessy

16 weeks haven't had an ultrasound or I don't know what I'm having

@tayhuth, Its a home gender test you boil red cabbage an use your morning pee an use equal cups of both red means Boy and purple means girl. you can youtube it also Its pretty cool work for me

Here they won't do one until at LEAST 20 weeks

I'm 14 weeks 3 days and I don't know what I'm having yet. Can't wait! I had an ultrasound at 9 wks

Wow! I don't know how you can go that long without an ultrasound I was dying to get my first one as soon as I could! Did one at 7 weeks to make sure my pregnancy was viable and they found out I was having twins! Don't be surprised if you get an extra surprise in there!! 😉

That's strange-how do the make sure the pregnancy is viable then?

Yeah! That's what I'm wondering @mommagotbump16 I can't believe they would make you wait that long unless there's another way to check for an ectopic pregnancy that I don't know of.

Not that I know of @chelcpoo . Or to make sure it's not a mass secreting hormones, etc.

They did the heartbeat at 10 weeks @chelcpoo @mommagotbump16

I had mine at 17 weeks

Yeah @tayhuth I guess that would make it viable. As long as you aren't having any bleeding or cramping you're good. But honestly an ectopic pregnancy can be dangerous by 6 weeks pregnant and still have a heartbeat. That's why I'm just shocked some doctors make you wait so long! I guess I got lucky going to a free pregnancy clinic. They do first ultrasounds free!

I'll be 19 weeks on Thursday and I haven't had an ultrasound yet, at all. Most insurances don't cover ultrasounds so if you seem perfectly healthy, the heartbeat is loud and clear, and you don't seem to have any complications most doctors won't do one until the anatomy ultrasound between 18-20 weeks, because that's when you can tell the gender most clearly. I'll get my first ultrasound on the 21st and I'll also find out the gender that day!