So frustrated. Really hoping the saying "a woman becomes a mother the moment she find out she's…

Some guys just aren't comfortable with it. My husband won't touch my belly and doesn't even like looking at it. It's annoying AF but I'm hoping for the same. I'm sure once the baby is here, they'll man up and become fathers! Have hope 💕

My Df loves our son, but he rarely rubs my belly or acknowledges the pregnancy. The most I'll get is "we're gonna have our boy soon." Men get anxious and sometimes try to block it out, but believe me, that doesn't mean he doesn't care or love your baby

I am so In your shoes dear! Don't loose faith and try to include him. When the baby moves have him put his hands there tell him when you feel the baby hiccup or jump since they can't feel what we do I noticed including them in all that helped a lot with my first child

And he still hasn't bought anything at all. And only has been to two appts with me. He's so ready and in love with our son though. Boys are just weird.

He doesn't even like me talking about it. But in our appointments and ultrasounds he's always intrigued and seems a little more excited, but outside of appointments..... nothing :( men don't understand how it is to feel them inside of you and depending on your for everything. Ugh I wish they could experience it just once. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

@vinnysmomma, @ajbarnes thank you ladies ❤️ he has no interest in feeling him move or even listening to his heartbeat via pocket Doppler..... it's just so hard to read men's emotions in a situation like this. I never know how he feels because he says he's excited but nothing ever shows he is :(

He has no way to connect and doesn't have the benefit of hormones helping him like you do. Men are different too, they are much more practical, less emotional. They need to be able to see and touch things to know they're real. Most men don't really 'connect' to the child until they start hitting toddler years and have a bit more personality. I've found it's easier to get my husband to connect to me and my pregnancy than the baby before its born. That helps.

I feel the same with my boyfriend I'm excited and he just seems to have no interest which I can understand because I was "taken advantage" of and the baby may not be his

Thought I was the only one feeling this way.

mine is the same way. every now and then he lays on my belly and rubs it. but he's not into the whole talking to baby or seeming interested in what our son is doing in the womb. he tells me he's excited. but he doesn't feel as strong of a connection as I do bc all he can see is my belly get bigger each week and hear/see what I'm going through.

Sometimes guys get super attached when they see the belly get huge.

honey for real? I am so sorry you went through that trauma! @ajbarnes

Ladies, I appreciate all of your input so so much ❤️ I'm glad I'm not alone in this. You all are so great & we are in this together! @precious_blessings16 @misskaebby @tahtahme @vinnysmomma @mommabird @bellahali @ajbarnes

No problem mama💁🏻 were all in this together 💪