man i see so many people complain about how hard it is to take care of a few kids and the one they bout to have but if you knew it was gonna be hard why have so many kids why cant it be like back in the day my mom had 13 pregnancy single mother most of the time took care of all of us and she had no papers no help from the government and still manage to have time for us and provide for us smh some of yall just underestimate yourselfs you can do it just put yourself to it dont complain appreciate god gave you a blessing