Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Loyal is starting to grab things I put in front of him everybody saying he moving out the way for another one
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
no problem
tracy·
Мама сына (1 год)
@mumof2, thank u very much
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
but yeah I'd try that. I put my son in a quiet room in his crib and let him cry himself to sleep. it doesn't hurt him. he just isn't doing what he wants. and that's how you discipline a baby by shutting down what he tries to control. you show him he doesn't run anything
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
and u say he isn't talking much yet so yeah he doesn't understand why you just popped him.
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
1 year olds are a little to young for spankings they need to understand why they are getting popped
tracy·
Мама сына (1 год)
@mumof2, that's a good idea my son hates naps too
tracy·
Мама сына (1 год)
@harleyadtr, my son don't care for getting popped he just laughs
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
because I understand how hard it is to communicate to your child while disciplining him when he has no language skills yet. with my son I made him take naps and he didn't like naps so he realized eventually if I'm good mommy won't put me in crib to make me take a nap. boys are headaches when they have tantrums. my son is autistic so I had to come up with ways to bring point across because his language skills weren't up to par. but he is almost 5 it gets easier trust me
missing356user·
Мама подростка
I'm a firm believer in busting a kids butt if they're misbehaving. But that's just me.
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Just be consistent with it and it'll work. He can sense disappointment and you will see results
tracy·
Мама сына (1 год)
@mumof2, he only says no and hi but no really @just9monthsx3 okay I'll try that
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Hey say one minute of time out for every year old they are so one minute will feel like a life time to him
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Best thing you can do is tell him no hit and put him in there every time he does it for one minute and take him out and repeat yourself again saying no hit ... Do it every time he hits he will get it
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
is he talking yet?