My mom has been my rock throughout my pregnancy! She throwing me a baby shower. And my boyfriends mother hasn't done anything, no support, only has called me 2 times my whole pregnancy. But my boyfriend feels we should get a apartment as close to his moms house so she doesn't have to drive far to see the baby 😒 She hasn't been of any support now I could care less about her.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My August baby decided she wanted to be a May baby like her big sister. Madison Noelle was born on Tuesday, May 24 at 3:50pm, weighing 2lbs, 13oz and 14". She was born at 27 weeks and has a long road ahead of her. Every day she has been getting stronger and amazing everyone. Please keep us in your prayers, my family and I have a long road ahead of us. Congratulations to everyone and I wish you all wonderful pregnancies and deliveries! ??❤
Am I wrong if I said I don’t want my boyfriend mom at hospital when I give birth ???my reason is because she has never supported me being pregnant nor does she call and check on the baby she does nothing really !!!
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
Baby Shower Dress?! Shopping has been difficult and I can't decide which dress for my shower? Keeping gender a surprise!
Takira·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
i feel u
Kay·
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Same. I have spoken to his mom in months
Rachel·
@kaygrig I hate it! It's like don't try to act different when the baby is here. Meanwhile you weren't of no support during the pregnancy
Kay·
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I honestly don't care. It's strange and it has crossed my mind but oh well. My baby has a great grandmother in my mom. Just like yours
Oshia·
Мама двоих (12 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
wow he tripping don't feel bad I am married and don't deal with mines
Rachel·
@kaygrig your right!
Kay·
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Glad your mom is so supportive
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I used to live right down the road from mine (she literally would walk over) and I wanted to shoot myself in the face. she would walk over and barge in without knocking and complain about my house keeping, how I didn't get dressed until noon (stay at home mom here) and just try to run MY house. I'm a grown woman with 5 kids. if I want to stay in my PJs till noon and wait to clean my house after we made our lunch mess that's my business. don't do it, you will regret it. I was severely depressed and considered divorce because my husband couldn't see what his mother was doing wrong.
Rachel·
@maybaby2016 I won't do it! That's exactly how it will be, were suppose to get married in January then move in together. But I won't move anywhere if I'm not going to be happy.
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
yea. for some reason mother in laws think they can rule you. especially if you're a young wife. you have your mother tho, see I didn't. maybe that will keep your mil in her place. I hope.
Allison Coakley·
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see, my mother in law and I are so close... a lot closer than my mom and I are. but in your experience has your mother in law changed after having her grandchild?
Kayla·
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Legitimately in the same situation, it drives me nuts.
Alyce Curtin·
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I wish my mom was there for me a lot more. Throughout my whole pregnancy so far she's barely been any support. She's gotten a little better now but I wish she was more into it, I feel like I can't even talk to her about the pregnancy because she just doesn't act interested. My MIL annoys the hell out of me and is super overbearing. Baby isn't even born yet and she tries giving me parental advice which I don't find useful since she has completely sheltered both her kids their entire life and is completely manipulative.
Rachel·
@maybaby2016 I wish I could have a mother in law that I'm close with
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
mine is a drunk bitch. I have done everything for her and she never says thank you. she talks to me like I'm a dog. she said that I''m only with my husband for his money (when he was making 80,000 a year. lol what money?) told me I look disgusting when I was pregnant with her grandson. I wish I could be close to mine too but she is down right mean. my mom died when I was 17 so I tried so hard to get close to this women when I first got with dh but now I just want to stab her in her eye. 🔪