Alright have to vent. I love my best friend but ever since I got pregnant and moved in with my fiancé and settled down with him she has been causing so much drama! I love her she planned my baby shower and it was beautiful but I never asked her to do it. She volunteered to do it for me, then when my fiancé's family went out afterwards which none of us knew that that's what was going to happen she like freaked out saying she wasn't invited when she was, and then had a meltdown about it. And now she was supposed to come over tonight and she never showed up after last night we made all these plans for everything that we were going to do she never showed up and when I texted he and asked her where she was because I thought she was coming over she told me she was watering her yard. And she hadn't heard from me so she thought we were "ocupado" as she put it. No, we made plans I shouldn't have to text you about it again come over she knows she is always welcome over at my house. Now she texted me saying that "I need some one on one time with you this weekend even its just for 15 mins. But I've been holding a lot in and if I don't clear the air with you, it won't be good for our friendship. At this point I don't know that we have any set plans for tomorrow or Monday so let me know when would be a good time for you k?" So I made plans with her for Monday. Im fed up with the drama at this point I have a baby and a husband to be to look after now. Im beyond frustrated I'm almost to my due date and I don't need this shit right now.
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Yeah well hopefully it gets better when you guys talk Goodluck and it really dies cause im not really close with anybody so ive been alone my whole pregnancy especially since my ex and i broke up but it is what it is
You don't need that kind of drama in your life right now. That kind of stress isn't good for you. My best friend would do the same thing even before I was pregnant! I'd be the one apologizing when I did nothing wrong... You're almost due! Focus on your baby and fiancé ❤️ I can't wait to be done with my pregnancy.
@leiibaaaby, and I try to make her feel included she's been to some of my appts she has been to almost every ultrasound and is going to be at the hospital for the delivery. She knows she can always come over to the house because I can walk up the driveway at her house or her stairs it's too much on my body and I'm not going to make every effort to be able to stay connected. And yea I guess they do get weird and change and I try to make sure that it's not any different for the most part. But it's obviously going to be a little different. And I'm sorry that your best friend just kinda stopped being a friend it definitely sucks!!
@geladactyl, I mean she has talked to me and all that but it's been super weird and she try's to make me feel like everything is my fault and it's super frustrating I'm over it. And yes they do it's annoying I'm trying to start my new life and get into the groove and she just is like causing drama I don't deal with drama or the bullshit like that never have never will. @chantebrandon that's exactly what I think it is. And it's not ok she is 30 years old and is just being dramatic she always tells me I was the one that was going to get pregnant first and I was supposed to be engaged first, like wtf this is not a competition at all. 😤
She probably just feels left out but i guess your relationships with people change when you get pregnant. I have only seen my best friend once since ive been pregnant she brought me some ice cream from out old job . She never hmu text or nothing not even when i was in the hospital majority of my first trimester smh i guess they just get weird when things change
My best friend didn't even congratulate me when I told her I am pregnant. She hasn't talked to me since and that was back in August... Friends change once you're pregnant. It's so weird.
@geladactyl, that's what I'm going to do I'm going to let her know Monday I don't need the stress and drama and then put the ball in her court with it. I have different priorities now with my life and she can't be the main focus in my life like she used to be. @leiibaaaby I hope it does but I'm not going to push it and stress over it anymore I can't I have other important things to put all my focus on. And I'm sorry I hope she comes to her senses because that's when we need someone the most and I can't imagine not having anyone 😕