I hate the fact that I've been feeling like my man will split of he meets a super hot chick. I've…

I know this probably won't help but a lot of men watch porn.. doesn't make it right but I don't think there's any connection or feelings that goes along with it for them.

I've been feeling like a fat 🐳 anymore because I'm a plus size person and I've gained 5lbs since I've got pregnant so that doesn't help at all

Talk with him. I just texted my husband that I feel like a potato and he instantly made me feel better. I agree with @whitney a lot of men watch porn.

Watch it with him one lucky night @kansas.ftm.camomomma. And yeah all men watch porn

Whats wrong with porn😐😶

The hiding it is way worse than the watching it.

If y'all are ganna have negative comments and stuff than don't waste your time. and it goes against the whole trust thing in a relationship and it's not something you watch alone you watch it with your wife even more so when she's pregnant @lalaloopsi

He tries to make me better about how I feel it doesn't work @geladactyl

and yes it's the fact he hid it for over a year and never brought it up. Until I found that he watched it everyday on his phone cuz he's "bored" ummm yeah bullshit @just9monthsx3

Not ALL men watch porn so I'm tired of hearing that. Its the dumbest excuse to be able to get away with it like forreal

Well excuse me i wasn't being negative i just asked a question 😒

No that wasn't directed at you. I should have put them separately lol

No, not all men watch porn. But you need to tell him how you feel about it. Have you? Some guys turn to porn during pregnancy because they are concerned about sex or worried about physically hurting their partner. Tell him next time you're up for watching it together, some guys find that hot :) but if you're uncomfortable with it then you need to tell him that too. As for hiding it, is it really worth the energy and stress to be mad over that? I wouldn't put energy into that.

Yeah I've talked to him. I just don't believe in watching it when you are in a relationship.. Even more so when y'all have sex pretty much every single night of the week and has secretly watched it the whole time we have been together and I'm just now literally finding out. @rainbowbaby2016

Yea i would be livid @kansas.ftm.camomomma. My ex was addicted to it and I hated it. I agree not every guy watches it and if they do they should be informing you of it

Yes exactly. I've told him that too. and the titles of the things he watched was mainly like girls shoving things up her. and he said it was because has bored at work. we have sex pretty much every night so I see no point in all in watching porn than

@just9monthsx3,

Sounds like an addiction if he's having sex every night and watching that every day. I'm sorry girl I dealt with it before and it sucks plain and simple.

it's not cheating. and yeah it sucks when they do it behind your back. that's why I told my man, if you wanna watch it, go for it. just tell me. guys get horny when we aren't around. not because they are interested in someone else or anything, but they could literally be sitting watching TV and bam, boner alert,aka horny lol.

but me and my man are very open with each other about everything, and I mean everything. and because of that, we never argue. the whole time we have been together we've had one argument. maybe you guys should open up more?

I am open he's not lil @breebree