so I just learned what an episiotomy is idk if I spelled it correctly but ouch is all I can say....

better than tearing. I would have loved one.

I didnt know about tearing or them cutting you my mom just now told me ....

Yeah same here I wish I had gotten one. Tearing was the absolute worst thing ever.

yup, it doesn't always happen, but it can! and there are different degrees of tearing. 😩

im glad im being warned just in case either happen so im not so shocked if it does.

Depends on what kinda birth you want. I didn't want any interventions I'll always pick to tear naturally. Sometimes they cut you when you don't even need it.

what is it? sorry ftm😟

They may cut you or you may tear if you're not stretching enough for the baby to get out. I was cut but didn't feel it in th moment

I'd rather tear naturally. Sometimes they cut you and you don't need it. Ouch. With my first they asked if I wanted it and I said no. Glad I didn't get it because I didn't tear. (At least not where they would have cut me)